me and my bf had a physical relations(almost everyday) then i came abroad and its like 2 yrs v were not together i never had sex after thatand my bf says that he also never got physical for 2 yrs...can it b possivle....a guy who got used to sex can he live without it for 2 yrs...shd i believe that he never had it done for 2 yrs and he survived without me and sex?wat u guys think pls tell
2006-08-21 13:24:09 · 21 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you never had sex for 2 years then why are you doubtful about your bf ? I think you had sex in between 2 years that's why you think same about your bf
2006-08-21 14:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by prince 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I too would be doubtful too. It's not unheard of, just most unlikely. Two years is one long time, to be with out sex with a partner.
Masturbation, can take you so far, but after a while, you need some one else in your life.
You may have to ask around, with friends who know him. I'm not sure they would spill the beans, but it's worth a try.
You could tell him, that it wouldn't really bother you, if he had, had sex, and that you would understand it. But before you tell him that, make sure, that's what you mean. If it would crush you, then don't say that to him.
It's either trust him totally or don't.
2006-08-21 20:36:21 · answer #2 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey to think any man that use to get once a day would go two years without your silly don't believe it i think it could be just away to make you feel better about yourself which in one way is a rotten thing to do i would have preferred the truth. But see we all can cast our opinions but it's what you believe deep down i had someone like that who said the same thing but when he had his friends around they told another story which was he was only saying that to get back into my pants. Please don't fall for the bull SH*T be strong and find some one that won't lie to you. GOOD LUCK sweety wish you all the best.
2006-08-21 20:36:47 · answer #3 · answered by sweety yhi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is trying to make u feel good about the situation come on do you really believe that? isure dont and i sure wouldnt fall for it men say the things woman want to hear for a reason. dont u think he knows you would be hurt by such things hes done in the past two years even though you havnt been together.he hasnt been with u for two years he survived it correct? so what really make u think he did nothing for that amount of time?be smart about the situation stoop letting him play u.hes trying to be the good guy out of the situation when you were really the good one
2006-08-21 20:35:45 · answer #4 · answered by nvvlewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well missy he's lying, cant happen especially if you and he enjoyed sex. It s an addiction once you've had it you need more
and in two yrs no way unless he was living in a convent, Sorry
2006-08-21 21:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by dannyboy463000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and have no reason to doubt, dont. By the way, you did not say what you did for two years ? He may be think about you in the same way.
2006-08-21 22:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by JD 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is possible
i am a man and just because of some quarel we (my wife and yself) have stpped the intercouse snce one year, we both sleep on the same bed with out clothes removed and she even tempts me and we still don't have actual intercourse, at the same time i should tell you that i don'thave any ther relation shps with other girls and she doesn't,
if we love each other one can stay with out finidng other partner in need of just sex
2006-08-21 20:55:31 · answer #7 · answered by raghu 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that he might be saying true he just might be fooling u as per my views u should not believe him bcz it llike getting habitual of anything and all of a certain u cant leave that practice take ur ex suppose u get habitual of doing any thing can u leave it all of a certain
2006-08-22 01:10:57 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_hon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the basis of all relationships. If you don't trust others then it is better don't go further and bother yourself with such ideas. The answer is very simple. Either you trust him or forget him.
2006-08-22 04:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by Abhijit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its not important if he had sex or not.
u dont own him anyway.no one owns anyone else.
whats important is that does he luv u and care fr u.
if he did indeeed hv sex to fulfill abiological need its just fine.
if ur heart still beats faster when u see him
just go to him ad dont think anything else
2006-08-22 02:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋