im tired of drinking and dating for funnnnnn, is there anyone out there who doesnt smoke or doesnt drink. who actually has dignity?
2006-08-21 13:22:58 · 43 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are millions of people that don't drink or smoke. ..you have just been where they don't go.
2006-08-21 13:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't drink or smoke or do any types of drugs! not all girls do ya know. I have dignity, I don't dress like a whore, I don't crave attension from old men on the street and then get mad when they look at me. that's how some of today's girls are and I HATE IT!! I have been told that I am beautiful and I don't drink or smoke to make people think Im cool.
2006-08-21 13:30:43 · answer #2 · answered by jkeys00 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe there is. Look for a woman who has grown up in a family that seems close, with parents still married etc. Meet someone at a church event or ask friends and family to introduce you to 'nice' ladies they know. There are so many nice girls out there, and they are lonely too... one tip however, I am a nice girl and many of my friends are nice girls. very nice and full of self pride and dignity, it doesn't mean we never went to bars... so don't judge all the girls at the bar. Just to let you in on a secret? The girls at the bar who are having a great time amongst themselves and not acting skanky and chasing the men are the nicest girls there with the highest self esteem. They can have fun without looking slutty or acting loose... you still want to be with someone fun right?
2006-08-21 13:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by mishel24 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes there are women (and men for those women who are reading this) out there who do not drink, or smoke or who want to spend every night at the bar.
I do not smoke and I very rarely drink I do however on occasion go to the club with my girlfriends to dance and have a little fun, and guess what I am always the Designated Driver. I am ok with that because I just enjoy having fun I do not need the other...By the way I smoke for 13 years before I quit at 25.
I am Happily married though but do not give up that special girl is out there...just do us all a favor and do not settle just so you do not have to be lonely...It always saddens me to see nice guys like yourself (or girls) who settle because they think if they do not they will be forever lonely
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 13:36:57 · answer #4 · answered by sweetangel_shanah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are nice girls out there but guys look for beauty before dignity. They want to date the bad girls but marry the good ones. They want to go and have fun and pick up STD's and then come back to the good girl. Then when they want to settle down, they usually nag their good girls to death and accuse them of being the way they use to be because they can't believe that they haven't had theri fun.
If you want a good girl, look past the face and look for the beauty in their soul, you may get lucky and get both beauty of face and spirit, but if you do, treat them like the jewel they are.
2006-08-21 13:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by nellie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is. But your question is also your answer. You say yourself you are tired of drinking and partying. Maybe your lifestyle was attracting the wrong time of women...the drunken partying kind. If you show that you have dignity, you will attract the same type of person. You get in where you fit in.
2006-08-21 13:29:24 · answer #6 · answered by CC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, to be honest (in my eyes and my friends) a girl is nice, once we meet that certain bad guy.Once we had like 2 or 3, then we lose our sweetness and we think all guys are mean so so are we. Then we start to meet the nice ones and they are the ones who getthe shitty end of the stick.
2006-08-21 13:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a matter of fact we do you just haven't been into the real world yet. just because you have had bad experiences in the past you shouldn't let it ruin it for the rest of us you just need let the right one come to you because you have bad taste when it comes to picking your own.i promise you god will only send you your soul mate if you just wait there is always someone for everyone we just have to dig through a few before we finally find them.
2006-08-21 13:35:36 · answer #8 · answered by shell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ME me Me mE me yea they do exist hahah somewhere over the rainbow.. drinking blah makes ya fat stupid and poor an ill and smoking yuck bad breath yucky hair i rather have an exotic fruit or a treat then those..
2006-08-21 13:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many good girls in the world but if you are drinking then maybe your meeting them in the wrong places.try other places like collage meeting places without alcohol,churches,stores,maybe an on-line service near you.dont give up there is someone for everyone and your someone is out there waiting for YOU!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 13:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by nvvlewis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on your search...
There are good women all over the place.
It seems that you might be in the wrong place at the wrong time..
I hate it when people say that.
The bar thing sucks, Maybe try the grocerie store...
If she's buying good food to cook, maybe she needs your company..
Good luck to you, and don't give up on your search..
2006-08-21 13:32:17 · answer #11 · answered by girlscanfishtoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋