What is my problem and how can I fix it?

Question

For a few years now, I cannot seem to find anything that interests me. I want something to do, but don't have any goals or hobbies. When I try something new I always end up feeling uncomfortable and get bored with it. Also I am quite shy so I take forever to make new friends. I want to get to know others, but if I do find people that I like I quickly become disinterested in them and distance myself. I feel overwhelmed by choices and so I can never make up my mind. No matter what I am doing I always feel I am missing out on doing somthing better. Nothing ever seems good enough. I thought I might be depressed, but I have tried 2 different medications with no effct in my mood whatsoever. I don't know what's wrong with me and I feel everyone I used to be close to is falling further and further away from me. I know something is wrong with me, but I feel helpless. Can someone please suggest something?

Answer 1

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Answer 2

First of all, I remember when you wanted depressing music to listen to, maybe you could try some upbeat music for awhile.
We are all sometimes overwhelmed, I am usually when I don't get out and exercise.
You mentioned medication, when is the last time you had it checked, or are you still taking it, sometime that can have an effect on a person.
If you don't exercise please start, I can't harp enough on it or take up a sport, it stimulates endorphins or peptides in the body, which are really healthy.( i will stop preaching)
today there are too many choices, that make most of us feel overwhelmed, it is a matter of choosing what suits you best, keep trying new things, you may just be bored, and the music has got to change to something upbeat.

Answer 3

Other than seeing a shrink, I think you forgot to "stop and smell the roses." Pick things you like to do and put all your heart into it and enjoy it as you go along. Then pick another thing, etc. You might want to join some intellectual groups to debate various things. Maybe you are bored because you are more intelligent than the people you are meeting and need a mental challenge. I hope this helps you a little bit.

Answer 4

Take singing lessons. It will help you overcome your shyness. Sing a song it will make you happy (earth wind and fire). Acting classes might work for you too. I use a supplement called SAM-e when I am depressed, and get relief in about a week (I suggest that too). Stay away from legal depressants (beer wine ect.). I bet you would benefit from light therapy (you never go outside). Try a tanning bed, or buy a natural light bulb (special order) since you hate it outside. They are expensive but you need one.

Answer 5

Talking with a therapist/counselor could help you. Sounds like you don't have a medical condition that needs medicine, just some infusion of encouragement and guidance from a professional to get you jump started and going.

Answer 6

Perhaps you are spending too much time thinking about YOU !! There is so much to be done for others...perhaps if you volunteered for some outside and unusual interests, you may find some outlet for another part of you that you continue to suppress. There are many good things about you, that you still have to discover.. start looking for them. You may be surprised.

Answer 7

Maybe it has something to do with your perspective of yourself. I feel the same as you sometimes. Maybe something's missing inside of us and we're trying to fill it up with material objects or distract ourselves from the real cause? I don't know,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,it's just a thought.

Answer 8

go see your docotr you be suffering from a form of depression and seeing as how there are a milion types only the doctor can solve this issue

Answer 9

have you spoken to your doctor I'm not saying that there is something wrong with you. don't treat your self you are not a doc, you could do your self harm.