how do you know if your man is cheating?

Question

i think my man is cheating , he wont let me see or answer his phone when it rings he dosen't want me to get a licence an all he wants me to do is stay home with our child
also when i am with him n he wants to go to another city he'll drop me to his momma house or his sisters or at home so do u think hes cheatin and how do u no

Answer 1

Look for hair on his passenger seat...everybody sheds a little. Does he always come home showered? Does he have sex with you regularly but stop a day or two before he goes to the other cities? The phone thing is almost a dead give away...he is either a control freak or cheating.

Answer 2

Surely you who live with the man would know if he were cheating.
Why does he go to another City? Is it on a job? sooner or later a man, or woman that is cheating leaves signs of some kind . Some
thing out of the ordinary. Have you just ask him? You say he doesn't want you to get a license. I take it you mean a drivers
license? You should have that no matter what.
You need to become self sufficient. Not because he may be
cheating, but for your own self esteem.

Answer 3

Cheating is the least of what your worries should be here.

1) He's controlling & shows all the signs of being dangerously close to getting worse & harming you if he hasn't already.

2) Regardless of gender,what kind of person do you think your child will grow up to be after being raised in a house where Mom isn't 'allowed' to drive or even answer the phone?

3) You want to know one of the biggest signs someone is cheating? Here's one:
You feel strongly enough about it that you'd post on a public forum about it.
You already know the answer.

Answer 4

Oh, boy. Those are all red flags. That's three strikes already against him, if you ask me.

1. He's secretive about his stuff (In your case, his phone.)
2. Wants you to stay sedentary, so you won't be able to get around as much (Won't let you get a license; wants you to stay home with the child.)
3. Keeps you under a "watch" so you're safely with his family and can't go out to find out what he's doing.

Hmmmm...very suspicious to me, I'm sorry to say.

Although I can't say for sure, those are very, very suspicious activities on the part of your husband.

Answer 5

Perhaps, there is not really any exact action out there that tells you someone is cheater.

From the few things you said and words you used...I am more worried that he is actually abusive in nature. It seems like a power and control issue. He is keeping you isolated and not giving you any control over your life, or knowing about his. When finding your way through all of this Just stay safe ok.

Answer 6

Honey, follow your first instinct. You'll never go wrong. If it comes out that he IS cheating, then you'll save yourself from more heartache that could possible come if you stay and continue to be unhappy. If you find out that he ISN'T, then you still save yourself from some lazy (and possible crazy controlling) b*stard that really doesn't seem to care about what you want or how you feel. And anyway, he's NOT your daddy, right? Make your own moves and you won't regret it!

Answer 7

It sounds like he is cheating and controlling his actions speak louder than words you r gonna have to play secret agent to find out the info you seek

Answer 8

Whetehr or not he is cheating, he wants you at home dumb, barfeoot and pregnant. That alone is a bad thing. On top of that, if his behavior makes you this suspicious, then why be with him, period. Realtioships are founded on trust, not him being your Baby Daddy.

Answer 9

Check to see if there are any red rings,lipstick, on his rod.

Answer 10

yea he might be living a double life. confront him or ask his mom and sisters. definitely not right what he's doing. he can't deny you anything, you have legal rights.