Exactly how long should you wait and hold on to your virginity till u realise what you missed out on & loose IT to make up for lost time?
Looking for specific ages here no abstract concepts like when you get married... Assuming her no marriage round the corner...
The question is looking for exact figures after its not worth keeping as you have missed too much
THIS WILL BE WITH CONDOMS SO NO AIDS/STD or Pregnancy CRAP
And also taking into account things like when you leave school/uni there wont be many your age around you who are single, a lot less after 30, plus virtually no parties ot clubs to meet people and your mates all coupled up.
Music will be gone for you and then there are things like body clocks on fertility ie how long before you will need IVF or run out of eggs etc.
Or realise this dumb consept means you have completely missed out on life and no shnce of getting it back etc...
2006-08-21
13:05:16
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FOLLOW THE INSTRUCTIONS
ALL ANSWERS MUST HAVE A SPECIFIC AGE BEYOND WHICH YOU STOP MISSING OUT OF LIFE WHILST OTHERS COUPLE OFF AROUND YOU AND ENJOY LIFE.
SO NO ASSUMING IT WILL BE IN TEENS, EARLY 20S , EVEN 30S...
NO ABSTRACT ANSERS LIKE WAIT TILL MARRIED...
NO RUBBISH ABOUT AIDS OR OTHER STD THIS IS CONDOM USE AND NO POPE LIES ABOUT VIRUSES BEING SMALLER THEN CONDOMS STRUCTURE... ONLY HAPPENS IF IN CONTACT WITH OIL
SO NO STDS OR UNWANTED PREGNANCIES RESPONSES
NO WIAT TILL MARRIED... ITS IF NOT MARRIED OR IN COUPLE BY AGE ANSWER THEN GLOOSE IT AND CATCH UP ON WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN MISSING...
OR DO YOU WANT LOADS OF 90 YEAR OLD VIRGINS?
AS THATS WHAT WAIT TILL MARRIED MEANS WAITING TILL YOU ARE DIYING AGE 99
HAVING LIVES ALONE AND MISSED OUT ON EVERYTHING
NO IM NOT A VIRGIN
2006-08-21
13:09:25 ·
update #1
Can you PLEASE state ages or your answers are useless
Can you PLEASE state ages or your answers are useless
Can you PLEASE state ages or your answers are useless
Can you PLEASE state ages or your answers are useless
Can you PLEASE state ages or your answers are useless
Can you PLEASE state ages or your answers are useless
That requirement is for a reason... If you cannot do anything that siomple it porves your notion of marriage is a lie
2006-08-21
13:29:35 ·
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IE THINK LIKE WHAT IF YOU DONT GET MARRIED
DUH"!!!!!!!!!!!
LIKE IF YOU DONT GET TO MEET ANYONE THAT SPECIAL
WHAT ARE YOU SUPPOSED TO DO THEN
WHY THE **** DO YOU THINK YOU WILL MEET ANYONE WORTH SPENDIN YOUR LIFE WITH
AND MEET THEM YOUNG?
SO GIVE DAMBH NUMBER ANSWERS SO ABSTRACT RUBBISH COP OUTS
2006-08-21
13:31:51 ·
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You do know you can still get HIV even with a condom, right? Nope, guess you didn't know. That disease is 100 times smaller than the tiny little polymers that make up condoms, so you can still get it.
wrong THAT RUBBISH ONLY COMES FROM THE CHURCH AND IS PROVED LIES BY THE WORLD HEALTH ORGANISATION
in fact its why there is so mauch aids in africa
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180406.stm
http://www.bbc.co.uk/pressoffice/pressreleases/stories/2003/10_october/09/panorama_holy_city.shtml
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3147672.stm
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/panorama/3180174.stm
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SO HERE THE PRROF THAT THE GOD SQUAD ARE NASTY EVIL SCUM EXPECTING THOSE NOT LUCKY ENOUGH TO MEET THEIR IDEAL SOUL MATE TO LIFE LIFE WITH NO WARMTH, LOVE OR AFFECTION OR ANY KIND...
THIS IS WHAT NOT POSTING NUMBERS MEANS
2006-08-21
13:35:16 ·
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Ok snail and others... what beats being in reltionships as withotu sex there is no love as you are not allowed to get close to anyone... No love no wramth not feeling anything but hurt...
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so how long do you stay lonley and hurt...
or is it you christins and gods get some kick out of torturing people?
2006-08-21
13:46:04 ·
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ie its a bit bllody late if an 86 year old pensioner who cant get it up without viagra, that doing it witll break your body and you cant do any positions let alone have kids...
2006-08-21
13:50:17 ·
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So all you christainis are thick as **** as not one has been intellectually capable of such a simple answer as a specific age or is it you get your sex trhills from seeing all the lonly people without someone ., knowing they are suffereing due to you rules that they must suffer to please your kind whilst you have an exciting love life?
2006-08-21
13:52:48 ·
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So lets do this litterally... you think its fine for one prson to get 20 years of hugging, love, sex and all things that go with it... and another to ger 3 weeks and crappy 3 weeks at that? is that fiar or just... No hence the question.
Or how about this... you christins think its fine for people to be devoid of feeling or affection...
How about kids... better to never have sex or kids and die alone then to have a boy or girlfriend?
Thats nasty ansd why christins are hated and seen as evil as so full of spite and getting kicks from hurting others not wanting them to ever be hugged, loved or feel warmth whilst you enjoy it in front of you...
Like someone eating cake in front of someone starving and not wanted them to have any
2006-08-21
14:30:14 ·
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flash cad ecomomix and luby
Thank you finally some posters with a brain with reasoning as well those who did it...
Thats the idea... now how come nobody else could get it...
If you have to think of a number you need to think whats specail about it then you start to understand what the question is getting at.
2006-08-21
23:24:03 ·
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Indigo actually think of a heart... no wamrht unless in a sexaul relationship so nobody to hug
2006-08-22
04:41:06 ·
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Leowin I thought I knew little about women but you take the biscuit... protecting woemn from sexaul exploitation... Other way around... wonen use sex to exploit and control men and you clearly know nothing about contrception like a typical ignorant christin... Condoms + hormonal/coil contraceptions prevent the deseases and pregnancies. Values oh you mean beating up kids calling them bastards...like your kind did. And as for families breaking up you seen working hours?
2006-08-28
00:58:48 ·
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Merilly what are you? If someone wanted me to be alone I would want him battered to give him a taste of his own pain... why dont you think the same?
2006-08-28
01:00:18 ·
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2006-08-21 14:17:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Oh dear! I can only wonder what has gone wrong with your life that you should ask such a monumentally unanswerable question. The only possible answer is as long as it's right for you. You give massive importance to marriage - most people don't these days. The old idea of the virgin bride and the bridegroom who had been "introduced" to sex by a commercial transaction went out before the first world war. If you are an adult you are a sexual being and you have the right to make your own choices
2006-08-21 13:20:20
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answered by Anonymous
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I guess it depends why you choose to remain a virgin.
If it's a religious belief, then, unless the religious system you believe in has a specific age as you are asking for, then I guess you'd be happier following your religion and foregoing sex.
If it's a personal belief that you should remain virgin say until marriage, then as you age and are unmarried and virgin, you might decide to amend your own stand. This is a personal decision; there's no exact number.
Personally I think that if you are past 35 and still a virgin, it is time to rethink. You've had a great run, stuck to your belief for a long while, but it might be time to do a rethink so you can enjoy another aspect of life.
2006-08-21 15:01:38
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answered by ekonomix 5
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the question is unanswerable cause from a biblical perspective there is no age at which it is right to lose your virginity if you are not married so if you don't marry you should die a virgin. Now if you want to go ask this in another category such as relationship category then you might get some answer there with an age in it. Just because you are not having sex does not mean you are missing out on life there are many things that you can do that don't involve having sex.
2006-08-21 13:42:32
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answered by snail 4
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I'm married. The only person I've had sex with is my husband.
If you aren't getting married, I'd say never have sex. I would have remained a virgin the rest of my life if I hadn't gotten married. This is an act reserved for marriage, so you can't take it out of where it belongs and say "forget what's right" which is basically what this question is doing.
If you think sex is all that life is about, you have a twisted concept of what life is all about. There are many people that have dedicated their lives to great causes and have remained abstinent. Saying that sex is something required to have a good life (or to enjoy life) is like saying these people had no impact on the world.
2006-08-21 13:17:26
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answered by Anonymous
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Virginity is required to protect women from sexual explotation.The church insists virginity to protect women,unwanted babies and sexual anarchy.Away from this resulted in AIDS.Sexual disciline wants virginity till marriage.Now in modern age anti-conception devises has made sex for pleasure with out pregnancy.This has resulted in collapse of family system ,values,child pregnancy,STD,AIDs etc.It is high time moral values like virginity are popularised for a healthier future generation.
2006-08-27 19:42:37
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answered by leowin1948 7
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Fas long as you can happily hold it and no one will get charges for raping an innocent child. Until it is legally proven that you can do it.
Do not involve the church law in this, you know they have a law to that and if you respect that law , do what they say.
If you think you do not want to miss out things go ahead. Just don't blame anyone or yourself for any negative result/s.
2006-08-21 13:20:26
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answered by Rallie Florencio C 7
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When you are ready - I was at 14 as are probably most boys.
It was a scary and intimidating concept before that, after you learn from sources such as mates, TV, porno mags it becomes more clear and less and less intimidating.
I suppose you are only really ready when YOU become sexually aroused.
2006-08-21 14:26:39
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answered by Anonymous
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The Word says it is better to marry than to burn in lust. Sex is a covenant between two ppl become one. That is why it is so important that it be a commitment you make between one another. that's why one bleeds making a covenant with that person.
2006-08-21 15:15:53
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answered by Christine N 2
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26 years old.
I personally think that premarital sex is not acceptable. So if you are not married- no matter how old you are, you should not do it. This is my opinion and I will not force it on anyone- but your body is a temple and should be treated as so.
2006-08-25 13:53:30
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answered by Anonymous
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