OK so this girl is perfect for me and we have been going out for sometime and she said we need to tlk
wat should i do
casue i really love her and i don't want to break up
2006-08-21 13:02:41 · 29 answers · asked by kykuklo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go ahead and talk to her. If she says she wants to break up, just stay calm and keep your cool. Ask her to tell you in detail why she wants to break up. If they reasons are small things, tell her you can change those things. Ask her if she'll give you another chance if you will changes. If she wants to break up with you because of big problems, tell her you'll get counseling to try to change.
Good luck.
2006-08-21 13:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by PonderinStuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS this a break up talk? or r u guess guessing, Find out the facts first then listen and overcome. Bottom line is if the girl like/loves you she wont quite on you that easily. only till she has no choice so dint think she wants to dump u, unless she doesn't like-love u in which you would not want that relationship anyway.
2006-08-21 13:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by bigmj75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... she said to talk to u ,, maybe is to develop the realationship further??? However, if she is asking for a break up, ask her the reason why and tell her you love her, but u have to realised that love cannot be forced or given in pity cos if that is the case then that is not love. so if u really really love her and she want to be free and happy, then let her go... u will find another somewhere out there....
2006-08-21 13:11:15 · answer #3 · answered by veramira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though you don't want to break up, you should probably start practicing your breakup lines, like...
"Awwww, who needs you? There are plenty of other fish in the sea."
and
"You really think you're something special, don't you? Well I got news for you, baby. You're common as dirt. There's a million out there just like you. Go on, get out of here. Who needs you?"
and
"So what do you want me to do? Cry? It will take somebody better than you to make me cry."
and
"You think you're gonna find something better, don't you? I just feel sorry for you. Poor little girl with her sad little hopes and dreams. Maybe one day you'll be able to face the truth about yourself."
2006-08-21 13:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Doctor Hand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE the "we need to talk" line.
Just go in with your head high and know it could be nothing at all!
Women like to talk about feelings. SO LISTEN....dont try to fix. She may just want to know that you are willing to listen. When she is done talking just tell her you heard everything she said and you would like to work with her on finding a solution if possible.
If she breaks up with you (lets hope not) STAY CALM...then say the same thing, if she said there is no fixing it...simply tell her that you wish that was not true, and that you still want to be with her. At that point Dont beg, fix, whine or yell...just kiss her on the forhead...hand or something and leave.
2006-08-21 13:14:48 · answer #5 · answered by my1215boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to life.people come and go in and out of your lives's and just because giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back.and so what if she decides to break up with you it will only open the door for some one to come into your life who wont turn there back on you and that's what i mean by love.so suck it up and only know she wont know what she's got till it's gone.and if it was meant to be it will be.these words of wisdom come from a young women who has been down that same road so Meany more times then you could imagine.
2006-08-21 13:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by shell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're panicking too much. If you really love her and you're sure you've been good to her, calm down. I'm not promising anything... It's one thing for her to be perfect for you and it's another for you to be perfect for her. Don't forget that relationships are two-way things.
No matter what she says.. Stand yourr ground because love never dies... I can tell you that much because i'm madly in love myself. Once you find love, hold on to it because once you lose it, that may be the end and you may never know love again.
Good luck dear! Remember to be calm..
2006-08-21 13:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by Natasha O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you sound very young, so there will be lots of girls in your future who will be just perfect for you. Best advise I can give you??? Don't become a parent with this girl. If you are sexually active with her, protect yourself, and her against a pregnancy. Use condoms if she is not taking the pill. If you are not sexually active with this girl, keep this little piece of advise for the future. Remember this little joke; "What do they call people who do not use birth control? Parents."
2006-08-21 13:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is man up and listen to what she says.
you might be over reacting unless you know what the topic is.
don't you think it would be better to know than torture yourself with the guessing game?
if she wants out you will not stop her trust me this will not be the last time you find someone to care for in this life.
you must move forward through life heart ache is part of the process be brave
2006-08-21 13:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by longfellow j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just cause she said we need to talk it doesnt mean she wants to break up with u
unless u did something bad then i would say u should begging for forgiveness
good luck
2006-08-21 13:09:22 · answer #10 · answered by cowboy76360 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋