do guys just use the girls that are easy, but really fall in love for the ones that are hard?
2006-08-21 12:49:17 · 16 answers · asked by boo_786 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends what you mean from hard to get?
May I ask, how old you are? Because this is a question young kids ask . . . because they are still living in a fairy tale world.
Look, I will be honest with you . . . you don't have to be a sl ut to get a boy. Just be yourself and be honest with him. If you lead him on . . . teasing and flirting . . . he will eventually get frustrated, and dump your a**. Some guys like girls who knows what they want and goes for it (it shows independence). Also, I wouldn't recommend you being a prude, because guys at that age (my age too) . . . sex is on our minds (not as often in my age as it used to be . . . ) and if you hold out too long, he may cheat on you with someone who will give him a little action.
As for love . . . you are too young to really know what love is. God knows, at your age . . . I didn't know . . . and don't tell me you are the new generation . . . because I heard that BS before and at that age we are all the same.
My opinion, you should go out, have fun, explore yourselves, and also be responsible . . . finish school, go to college and get a degree or two . . . and accomplish your career goals, when you are well on your way to your career goals, then look for a relationship (a boyfriend) and look towards getting married . . . otherwise, just have friends . . . and some FWB.
2006-08-29 05:35:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tag Your It 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to say!!!
The thing is guys love a chase but they thing is most of the time they like the chase so much that once they have it they don't want it anymore! And want to find someone else to chase!
The girls that are easy guys normal just use them for something and will use them over and over - but some times they love sex (or what ever) so much - they fall in love with sex not the girl
The girls that are harder to get - the relationship normal lasts longer because of the chase and they girl might get hurt in the process once the guy get what he wanted
but if a guy and a girl (girl&girl/boy&boy) really take the time to get to know each other they will know if that is the person that they want to make a life with -- It is a good reason to get to know each other as people and not bodies because if the bodies go away and the sex goes away they still have a friendship that the realationship is based on!!!
For me -- my faince is my bestfriend! 1st and foremost
2006-08-21 13:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Leasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not in all cases The as you say easy girls need love as well and most red blooded guys will chase an easy target than hunt their prey, but there is a fine line between hard to get and unobtainable some guys just wont go the extra yards to try for hard to get fearing they may just fall short , and end up in a puddle of heartache and embarrassment. but every now and then a guy will come along that wants you so bad he will wait and tempt you and with a little luck you wont wait to long and he will be worthy of your patients
2006-08-21 13:02:22 · answer #3 · answered by slick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mind the hard to get angle at first but it better wear off quick and very rarely do I actually respect the girl that plays it one me. It is a challenge, but once I actually feel that I've "won" I lose interest pretty quick. Its one more way people play games with each other. Why would you want to play games with the heart of someone that could be the potential love of your life?
2006-08-21 12:59:01 · answer #4 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that is the case and i dont know why i dated this girl that was easy to get and have sex when ever but then when she stoped likeing me i went insane and i hated it so guys like it when its hard to get the girl but theres a point were the girl stops and says ok he loves me
2006-08-21 13:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like girls that are hard to get. It keeps things interesting.
2006-08-21 12:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question! I think that you are right-guys like girls who are (play) hard to get. Keeps things interesting I think.
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2016-05-16 10:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to get 4 true love.
2006-08-21 12:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. Guys are inherently lazy and tend to go for women that throw themselves at them. To us "hard to get" means swarming with other guys. What guy wants to deal with that?
2006-08-21 12:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋