Relationship or sexual relationship?

Question

I am involved in a relationship with a 25 yr old female and I am 38...Our relationship is mostly sexual but we have a good communication and feelings for each other as well. She is very agressive with sex and loves more than one partner. Especially females. Should we take it to the next level and move in together or keep it the way it is. SEX is good but its not everything in a relationship.

We both enjoy multiple partners....It is not an everyday thing though....we are commited to each other emotionally but enjoy the romp in the hay with others at times as well.

Answer 1

Relationship.

Sexual relations are only going to get your emotions crazy or worse you could get pregnant or get a disease if its casual meaning your not and she's not the only one you have sex with.
Trust me if its a casual relationship it may not end well. It feels so good when your doing the wrong thing but that only last for a little while. I know its hard to find a good person to be with and hard to keep things long term but you have to have confidence and hope stay fit and look good and dont go into the desperate mode. Thats why you keep your self up in appearence and mentally think positive and have faith and you wont go into that desperate mode. Try it. Love yourself

She is going to hurt you if you move in with her. Trust me. Its just sex.

Answer 2

hmmmm, this is a good question. I have a friend who is in a "bad" relationship but has a "good" sexual relationship with her partner. Although she is physically satisfied she is going to break up with her boyfriend because she can not bear the stress of their emotional relationship no longer. In this case I would have to say even if the sex is good but your emotional relationship is bad than it will fail because the only thing you would like about each other would be in the bedroom but if your relationship emotionally is healthy yet the sex is not that great than there can still be hope for it.

Answer 3

If you have a good sexual relationship that is great! But if you want more you may need to look elsewhere, open relationships with multiple partners is not good for long term. One of you will eventually get jealous, keep it the way it is for now

Answer 4

in as much as both of you are crazy for sex, move the relationship to the next level. age is nothing but a number.

Answer 5

Dude you need to keep this at an arm's length, play with her as long as you want to but when you're done run away. This girl has issues and will only screw you up in the long run if you let her get any closer than she is now.

Answer 6

Tell her to get to steppin what do u want with her anyway. It is a 38 year old female out there that will rock your world and have u hurting go find her.

Answer 7

keep it the way it is. when more than one person is brought into the sex, relationships wont last much longer. there is always jealousy involved of who pays more attention to who, and what not. just have fun while it lasts, it will undoubtedly end.

Answer 8

keep it casual cause the last thing you would want is to come home and find her muffing some woman dont expect her sexual needs to change because you want to start a relationship i highly doubt they will, just do what you guys are doing and if you feel you want more find someone who wants monogamy. use a condom!!!

Answer 9

Once she moves in with you, can you tolerate the other partners? That is the make-or-break question.

Answer 10

it is difficult for this female to be commmitted to you to any extent once her sexual requirements are met with. no does not desrve to be on the next level of friendship with you.