How do I know if, a guy that I have know for 3 years likes me or not.?

Question

Is there any way to find out without just comming out and asking him.

Answer 1

Does he spend time with you?
Does he listen to you?
Does he call you?
Does he laugh with you?

These are all positive clues that he likes you.

Does he ignore you?
Does he never call you?
Does he treat you poorly?
Does he insult you?

These are all positive clues that he DOESN'T like you.

Answer 2

If u want an answer the only thing u can do is ask, but just prepare yourself u may not get the answer u want. If after 3 years he did not give u any hint along a romantic line he probally likes u as a friend.

Answer 3

The first thing that should tell u he likes u is if he firts with u. By flirting i mean does he act playful around u? But some guys might not act playful around u cos they are shy and are wondering if it would offend u, those type of guys are very had to figure out. So first sign that he likes u should be he playful behavior around u.

Answer 4

See what kind of things he likes to do with you, and how often he want sto spend time with you, how long he stays when already with you. See if he smiles, laughs and jokes around with you. These are all signs that will show you much better than words, because if you ask he will feel guilty saying anything other then he likes you.

Answer 5

I wrote my friend a letter. I shouldn't have done that. I should have told him face to face men like honesty and and confidence. Be serious with him and dont act goofy.

If you tell him and he acts distant then call him leave a message. tell him to call you. Don't ever call again if he doesnt call you again since he knows you like him he may feel uncomfortable talking to you if he doesnt like you back he may do this my friend tried to distance himself but I DID NOT want to lose his friendship so I told him boldly that we will still be friends and we are its like I never liked him or told him and that all that matters is that I have his friend ship because he is a great person. also men go for what they want trust me especially a shy dude. Men dont waste time with their feelings if they really want you so dont think he needs time if he is distant, he has known you for 3 years what more time does he need.

I told my crush I liked and I am SOOOOO glad I did. He turned me down but its like a weight has been lifted off of me. Do it so you wont have that weight on your heart. Its a good feeling to know it hurts if he turns you down but at least you know. WOndereing isnt always good

Answer 6

Well, I think you have to show hints that you like him first. It doesn't have to be anything big. Do what feels right for you. And if the guy you like seems interested, wait for him to make up his mind. If he likes you return, he'll surely ask you out, won't he?

Answer 7

Ask his friends, its so much easyer. Act like you dont care one way or another and act the same no matter what the answer. That gives you the upper hand. Or have your friends do that for you. Although honestly its easyer to just be like 'man we've been firends for so long, you think we should hook up and see where it goes?'

Answer 8

Talk to him, and work around that you think the two of you a good friends and see what he has to say, it's like going fishing, just do not be a pain about it.

Answer 9

well after 3 years you should know if you truly dont ask him whats the worst he can say ? NO so you go find someone that does have feelings for you

Answer 10

Ok. Try this: Tell a friend to tell him that you like him a lot and not to tell that you told and if he likes you too he'll probably ask you out and if he doesn't you can deny the whole thing.

Answer 11

You've known him for 3 years and you don't know if he likes you or not??? Interesting..
Go ahead and ask him out....something causal.