i am 13 and pregnant. me and my b/f had sex on my b-day 1 month ago. i just realized i was pregnant when i missed my period and began getting sick almost every morning. cause i told my bffs mom and she took me to go get a test. how do i tell my mom?
2006-08-21 12:09:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Do *NOT* wait any longer.
Tell your mother that she has been a good mother to you and you love her very much. Then give her 15 to 30 seconds to realize that you are going to say something big. Then tell her:
"I'm pregnant. I already took a pregnancy test. I'm really scared and I need your help."
2006-08-23 03:57:51 · answer #1 · answered by achtung_heiss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got pregnant when I was 17. My boyfriend is five years older, but we were both in tears and completely terrified. We too went to my boyfriend's mother first, and she told me that I absolutely had to tell my parents. Eventually I asked her to ring my house, and she explained to my mum what had happened. When I got home that night, I realised just how much parents care for their children. She was shocked, upset, worried and probably angry with me, but she still didn't close the door in my face. Once we had both faced up to the truth, I felt a lot better talking about it, and I stopped being scared. If you're too worried about telling your mum to her face, which I totally understand, you could try asking somebody that both of you know and trust to call her and break the ice, or you could write it in a letter. Otherwise, just go for it and explain to her that you've got yourself into a sticky situation and you really need her support, before telling her your problem. She'll be shocked and maybe cross, but she will still love you and will want to help. This isn't something you can go through on your own. Remember that once she did a test and found out that she was pregnant, so she will know exactly how scared and confused you're probably feeling. Whatever happens, you have to tell her. Be calm, be mature and cry a little if you have to. It will be ok.
2006-08-22 05:11:06 · answer #2 · answered by Jethro 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You must be using your Boyfriends account cause if your name is Bob then you should be rich for being pregnant...
but all crap aside..if you really are pregnant then go and be honest with her... Don't do anything stupid like give Birth and place the Baby in a dumpster... a lot of teenagers do that, if you don't wanna have a Baby or if your mom gets angry then find a good couple that really wants to adopt a Baby... You have a lot of options sweetie... Everyone has faults dont listen to negative stuff..... Think about yourself and your unborn Baby...Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 14:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her immediately you are 13 and i am not sure you know the implications of doing this thing you had no business doing will have on you the rest of your life so just sit her down and tell her chances are she has already noticed the changes in you. If you can't work up the courage write her a note. Be brave you are gonna need to be and best wishes to you.
2006-08-21 12:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by Eisha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since your bf's mom took you for the test she should take you to talk to your mom and believe me i feel for you because you're a child and your life is going to change so much but just be honest you were brave enough to make that big decision and have sex now be brave to face your mom.
2006-08-24 18:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by nutty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your mother, if you have an abortion w/in 6 weeks it really is just a clump of cells that haven't developed any further than a tadpole yet. Every sperm and every egg is a potential life; it's ludicrous to think that all those potential people could all fit on our planet after just one generation. Give yourself a chance giving birth isn't safe at your age and your parents are the ones who will have to look after the baby, you need to tell them now.
2006-08-22 08:39:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say, "Mom, I am pregnant." Then you let her scream at you for however long she wants. You should give the baby up for adoption. You cannot support it. It's not your mom's or your boyfriends parent's responsibility to pay for the mess you created. Someone else would be happy to have it, and could give it a much better life than you can.
2006-08-21 12:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really don't think you can do it by yourself, have her take you to the doctor's office. The doctor can help you tell your mother that you are pregnant. Then you will be telling her in a calm, neutral setting with a medical professional at your side. You can do this...telling your Mom is the right thing to do!
2006-08-21 12:19:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this was something you should have thought about before you had sex at 13. I suggest you just tell her because she's going to figure it out pretty soon anyway...moms always do.
2006-08-22 21:50:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom the same way you told your bffs mom, slowly and use the right words, be ready for her to be disapointed though, and maybe even be ready for her to walk out of the room without saying anything, yell, just look angry, or cry. best of luck!
2006-08-21 12:20:49 · answer #10 · answered by ♥ Sydd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋