There is this guy at school, he isn't that cute, and he keeps saying he likes me and having other people to also tell me he likes me. I don't like him, but he hasn't been mean to me or anything, and I don't want to hurt his feelings, but I don't like him and obviously he can't take a hint... so could anyone give me advice? Oh, and if you are thinking that the only reason I don't like him is because he isn't attractive, that isn't right.. I mean, it has a part in it, but that's not the only reason, he isn't the kind of person I would enjoy being around. Not that he is mean or anything, he's just not my type. Thank you!
2006-08-21 11:52:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl if you dont like him then thats FINE. Girl what I do is this. If I dont like a guy I ignore him and if he keeps messing with me I am just going to have to hurt his little feelings because obviously I have told him time and time I dont like him and he must can take rejection or get his feelings hurt if he keeps coming at me when I said NO. So ignore him and dont tell him again because as long as you react to him then he is going to keep thinking he has a chance let him know YOU DO NOT HAVE A CHANCE SO BUZZ OFF STUPID!!
Now if your not that mean then keep telling him no and eventually he will get the picture but the only way someone is going to leave you alone is if you put your foot down and if that means going OFF on him then you may need to do that
or just start liking him
Do NOT lead him on by telling him you could be better as friends because he will think he has a chance
2006-08-21 11:58:13 · answer #1 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Angel.......there is only one thing you have to do. Thank him for liking you but that you are not interested. You need not give him a reason. You have a right to like, or dislike anyone regardless of how they feel about you.
I know you don't want to hurt him. That is to your credit. But if you let this go on you may give him the idea that maybe you do but just won't say.
When that happens you will have to hurt him. Now is the time to let him know. Stop it before it goes any further. You will be doing him a favor in the long run.
2006-08-21 12:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in the next ten years when you run into him again and he's an attorney, or a doctor, you can remember the one that got away! Going out with someone isn't MARRIAGE, honey...it's a date! I say, Kiss all the frogs cause you might just pass up a prince without knowing it. By the way, how do you KNOW he's not you type if you haven't gone out with him? You got no class, sweetie!
2006-08-21 12:01:29 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is telling other people to let you know so he can find out how you feel. Tell them that you want to be 'just friends' and no more with him. That should stop his advances, as he seems like a gentleman, even though he's not your 'type.'
2006-08-21 12:00:34 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
***double bonus!!!*** hook him up with one of your friends. sure, you might lose a friend, but you'll also lose this guy!
hey, perhaps one of your friends actually would _like_ to be with him.
in any case, you need to divert attention away from yourself. perhaps you could stage an attack of the area... an attack led by crazy penguins. surely that will take his attention off of you and put it on saving his OWN life.
stop showering. become a slob. and while being a slob, act like you're high and mighty over him, and you shouldn't have to be bothered by simple peasants such as he. or even better, while being a slob, don't pay him any attention.
2006-08-21 12:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go about your business.......stop all this teenage immature crap! Don't talk about him to others. Don't pay attention to what other people are telling you. If there is no chemistry then there is no chemistry. If he approaches you are asks you out (which I doubt).....be nice, direct andd smile. Don't make a big deal about this, sweetie.....you are fueling the fire!
2006-08-21 12:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
needless to say you may desire to apply a firearm. it seems to be the going type presently. Be suicidal or depressive and pull a gun and initiate capturing. isn't that what the 2nd modification is all approximately?
2016-09-29 12:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by alia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you think that you and he would be better as friends and you don't want to mess up what could be a potentially good friendship
2006-08-21 11:59:50 · answer #8 · answered by LaKeysha R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hurt his feelings, right now! It is the best way. Sure, he will be 'hurt', but he will get over it. Don't waste any more time, just do it.
2006-08-21 12:00:10 · answer #9 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just trying telling him that u don't like him in a nice classy way. just tell him that u see him like a friend more then a friend
2006-08-21 12:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by amy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋