So they everyone needs someone to share life with. I guess this is so true. But why there are people arround who are lonely and they dont have partner to share life with . why ??
2006-08-21 11:48:34 · 6 answers · asked by scorpionwhiz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well.. i believe a lot of people shortchange themselves; they don't work on themselves to be Great PEOPLE... or considered a great catch in general. therefore, if u are kinda shy, or socially awkward, hard to get to know, feel stupid, feel ugly, etc etc etc..it's just harder to attract someone of Quality.
think of what YOU would want in a dream woman: probably someone beautiful, confident, smart, fun, sweet, kind... all those great things woman should be and more. but have u taken a step back and first looked at urself? are you handsome, confident, smart, fun, sweet, kind.... all the things a MAN should be and more? u can hardly expect to get a Great woman such as that, if u don't take the time out to work on yourself.....
confidence is a KEY quality that is attractive to all people. therefore, if u continue to work on urself, and feel better about urself, the higher the percentage is that you will get to choose from (ie there are many fish in the sea). if u are unconfident, the lower the percentage of people u will attract. good luck to everyone! :)
2006-08-21 11:56:27 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that God has a plan for all of us, and some people are just supposed to go through life alone. I don't know why this is but it is all part of a bigger picture. I'm 30 and still alone, I just haven't been truly in love with someone yet. Yeah, I go out on dates and stuff but I've come to accept the fact that I may be single for the rest of my life and I'm cool with it. I get lonely but it's all part of life. Good Luck!!!
2006-08-21 19:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The special person, that is for them, has not come along, I guess. I am one of the lonely ones, and I wonder why it is that everywhere I go, everyone is involved but me. I just last week, had the fellow I was seeing, shine my on my birthday to be with another woman. I asked myself if being with him was still better than being alone, but I finally came to my senses. If I put energy into someone like him, then I am, literally, going to screw it up for someone far better than he is, to come along. Loneliness is so close to depression, and the fact that I was somewhat desperate as a result, did not sit well with me. All that I have to keep me from crying my eyes out every night is the hope that there really is someone specially for me somewhere, and I will meet him someday. Until then, it is going to be hard to not to knock down myself over this louse that just hurt me, but in actuality, there is really nothing worse than being with someone for the sake of just having them around and not having that special love between you. All of the bad bad and negative emotions take over shadowing the loving, tender ones. This is a recipe for bitterness.
2006-08-21 19:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by lisa l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness is a part of life. Everyone goes through seasons of loneliness. It can be a good thing because it teaches you how to be self sufficient, and it gives you time to think about life.
2006-08-21 18:57:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is fleeting. As mentioned in Shakespeare's "A Midsummer Night's Dream" something can happen to someone else just as they find love, so maybe they didn't have enough time to meet someone before death. But still, it's so sad.
2006-08-21 18:58:12 · answer #5 · answered by iceisnice610 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask them that question some ppl choose to do so
2006-08-21 18:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋