So how can men just have sex with one girl and then move on to the next and show no emotions towards you after they have used you. They want to ignore your calls and then after you stop calling them then they start calling you again. I don't get it???? And why do we have to play mind games with them????
2006-08-21 11:32:23 · 24 answers · asked by L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you don't have to play mind games with guys, you just choose to. It's your fault if you choose to try and stay with a guy who you know is just gonna use you for sex. There are plenty of decent guys not out there for just the sex, it's up to you to find one or let him find you.
2006-08-21 11:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by pieninja 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The best way to solve this is to always show them you can play the same game or atleast make it look that way to them. I have always done it this way. I know how guys minds work, and yes some of them are like that, but if you run into these type of guys then play their game too. Don't make yourself look needy to a guy and try and call him and track him down all the time. Let him do this from the begining. Keep him chasing you instead of the other way around that way he knows what he's dealing with, and he might just think twice about some things.
2006-08-21 11:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those are boys. Men don't play games. Men don't put sex and emotions in the same category. Most women do. They call you after you stop calling so they can string you along for a booty call. Men are actually really simple once you stop trying to figure them out. Take what they say at face value.
2006-08-21 11:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because the man in question views you as an object. But there are two people in this equation. You are just as at fault for giving it up. He probably is ignoring your calls because you either a) get on his nerves or b) he feels guilty about using you and is too scared to confront you. After awhile he might try to call again because he probably thinks you will fall for it again..and you just might. And about the mind games..you don't have to. Most guys absolutey hate that.
2006-08-21 11:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by imbrue001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are just like dogs, they move on innocent women that will listen to just about anything they tell them, and in my opinion that is just so wrong because I have been down that road twice in my life. So just become wise to there mind games and become a strong willed woman and you would be surprised on how much respect that you will get from men in your life. Just don't give into there doggish ways because they are preying on the weak ones. So just play mind games with them just as they do us, and if he does decide to call you back just tell him that you are busy and you can not talk right now, or better yet tell him that you are going on a date, and see how he reacts then.
2006-08-21 11:44:51 · answer #5 · answered by kintrell_olia_wright 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, our minds are in completely different levels. If we try to understand them, we'll go crazy. I think they just follow their insticts, their basic ones, they like the chase and feel good when they get the prize, so they go get another one. It's actually pretty simple, but we like analyzing things and want the answer to every little thing that happens. Sometimes, we just have to play along until we find one that's tired of games and wants the real thing. We could use some luck ;-)
2006-08-21 11:42:05 · answer #6 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called the Cavemen's tactics, they ran when pursued and chased what's running, so just show them your heels and there they come running, Men do have sex without any feelings, but not all men are like that, there are some decent ones out there, hope you find one.
2006-08-21 11:45:50 · answer #7 · answered by cheyenne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are like that, most just don't care about the womans feelings or if she gets hurt.most will say what ever it takes to get in your pants, then go on to the next one.Its sad that these men make it very hard for the ones that are not like that.I'm sorry you had to find one that was bad,
2006-08-21 11:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all men are in for sex. And i do want to know why you play mind games too. But dont worry you will find someone real.
2006-08-21 11:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by popstar452003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEAH!....'cuz ONLY men do that !
Us folk with penises don't have a monopoly on the *sshole game!
There are a few of us guys out here who've been kicked to the curb by abusive "ladies"!
Maybe some of us play before we GET played!
2006-08-21 11:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by Danny 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋