how am i meant to loose my virginity?

Question

i have a boyfriend and he wanted me 2 sleep with him but i cant coz i am a virgin, and i dont know what to do!

Answer 1

Snuggle up to Frodo and purr, "The ring! I want the ring! Please? You can do this for me!"

Reward him if he follows through. "No ice? No dice."

Answer 2

Wait until you´re married, even if you´re not religious (I´m Catholic, but that´s not really the reason why I´m waiting). Think about it this way. What´s the best gift you can give your husband on your wedding night? YOUR VIRGINITY. He will feel sooooo special that you haven´t been around and slept with other guys. He will admire you for your self-respect and high morals. I´m not putting anybody down who has pre-marital sex because most of my friends have and that´s a personal choice, but only 3% of the population waits until they are married to have sex. By waiting, you will also show that you are unique and you don´t fall into peer pressure. Any man who can´t understand this isn´t worthy of you. Most people regret not waiting for "the one" (notice I said MOST, not ALL), and by "the one", I mean the man you´re going to spend the rest of your life with. Forget about the whole, "I need to test-drive the car before I buy it" stuff. How can you compare a woman to a car? Your husband, whether he is a virgin or a non-virgin, will have his whole life to teach you about sex. Why not learn it from him? Trust me, he (your furutre husband) will be honored.

Answer 3

Well there really is no answer to this question.

I have reread your question and I get a bad feeling about your boyfriend.. my advice dump him pretty damn quick. But don't be surprised if he dumps you first. But don't feel bad just think you had a lucky escape. And then go and enjoy yourself, you will know what to do when you meet the right person believe me.
But do go to the websites kindly given to you by otis. Now he seems a nice bloke.

Edit: Should you decide to sleep with your boyfriend, please insist that he practises safe sex, not just to stop you becoming pregnant but to prevent sexually transmitted diseases.

Though at present you are still a virgin once he has penetrated you and comes inside you, you could get pregnant so please be very careful and do take precautions at all times.

All the very best to you.

Answer 4

This question comes up time and time again, and the simple answer is to Waite until you are ready. it is nothing to rush and take it easy, the first time will remain with you and you will always remember that event.
The sleeping with the boy isn't the problem, it is the sex. if he is good and gentle and waits until you are excited enough to receive him the pain of bursting your hymen will be less noticeable.
Your body will react to the stimulus and you will enjoy the experience. No one learns what to do, your body will react to what is happening to it.
If you are not already doing it, may I suggest mastibation, find out what your body likes and you enjoy. you can then direct him gently to the spots on your body you like touched.
"Daddy Dave"

Answer 5

Going on your previous and only other question, I would suspect that you are not old enough either physically or emotionally. You might even be underage for your boyfriend to be having sex with you. I would suggest that you wait at least a few years, until you are mature enough to deal with such a situation. Remember, you are still young and have plenty of years to enjoy yourself when you're old enough.

Answer 6

Each individual looses their virginity when they are ready; age and timing isn't a factor. When you are ready, you'll feel it inside. If you feel like you don't want to have sex with your boyfriend then you are not ready to move to that stage.
Of course all virgins are nervous their first time but you get the hang of it. Besides, it doesn't take much if the boy is on top.

Answer 7

I would say no Immediately..

I dont know what age u are and ur background..

Patience is a virtue.. If he is supposed to love u, he can wait and its important that u both feel the time is right and now is not the best time 4 u..

Answer 8

Hears the deal...

You re edit that question to include you age and his and ill answer in detail with lots of advice...


In the mean time check out these

www.ruthingking.co.uk
www.brook.org.uk
www.fpa.org.uk

And prove to use telling us how you can and connot get pregnant and how much you know about contraception... here a clue ask those links.

and the importance of two kinds and all in particular things like how you can get pregnant and still be a virgin....

Then Ill give your your answers... promise.

If you look at past answers you will see I mean that.

Answer 9

OMG! Chik, please don't do anything you don't want to do. The fact that you have asked this question makes you unsure about it. Don't be pushed into doing anything, if he can't wait, or he gets upset because you have asked him to wait then he clearly isn't good enough for you. The time will come when your ready, once its gone, its gone and ou wanna make sure your with the right person ok Chik x

Answer 10

girl you are a rarity. i wish i had waited, but i cant get that back .keep that as long as you can you only have it once in your life. if you can wait til you are married very few do.tell ol boy that you are saving yourself for that special moment and if he cares anything than he would wait until you decide you don't want anyone else deciding for you. hey it may be you than it may not but let you decide who it is. i know that it is hard but try not to put yourself in that position of being alone and getting tempted by your flesh remember your reason for keeping yourself

Answer 11

Dont do it babe! If you dont know what to do, then you are clearly too young to be doing it.

And if you do go ahead and do whatever you dont seem to understand what it is that you are doing, wear a condom, although i would say deffo wait until you are ready to lose your virginity to someone that respects you a little.