Should I stop him from going or not?

Question

This question is a sequel to my last two questions posted, so please read it before going further.

My special male friend who I love and loves me most is going to the Philippines (my country) on December for holiday and meet some of his friends. I met him in Holland where I am right now, but we're living separately of course. He told me that he has to book the flight this week. I didn't react at first and remained silent. I thought that I dont have the right to stop him since we are still "special friends" though. However, deep inside I want to tell him not to go so I can spend Christmas with him. Am I too selfish to stop him? Or should I just tell him what I felt about it? Do I have the right to do that? Please help me out.

Answer 1

Of course you have that right.
Before he books the flight tell him that you are disapppointed and would have loved to spend the Christmas holiday with him.
Perhaps hee'll invite you to go along...

Answer 2

Tell him how you feel. Maybe he will ask you to come with him