Guy #1... 9yrs older, loves you to death, he'll absolutely do anything for you (even leave his wife), loves your kids, helps you financially, is a BIG flirt, and is great in bed. Guy #2...19 yrs older, likes you, alright with the kids but not for a long time, doesn't really consider you as a girlfriend, a BIG flirt, and is great in bed, too, but doesn't really make you go crazy like guy #1(in bed). What if the feelings for Guy #1 aren't as strong as at the begining of the relationship? The feelings for Guy #2 are the kind that you forget about everything when you see him. Would you stay with Guy #1 just because he shows you the kind of love you and your kids need and will help you with whatever you need or want? Or would you go with Guy #2?
2006-08-21 10:59:23 · 13 answers · asked by pinkberry 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
awwww damn that is a hard question!!! but i really read ur words carefulllly so i can answer ur question right.
ok if a guy have a wife and will leave her for another that will break the wife heart and make her lose her mind and will never trust a man again,for him if he left her that will mean that if he found a girl while he is married to u attractive and love her the way he loved u he'll do same and leave to to marry the girl he fall in love again so sorry but who leave the first wife for a girl or any woman will never trust to have him around u forever or long time cos he'll do it again and leave u cos he left his 1st wife(1 guy)
second the 2nd guy
i'll go with 2nd guy but should first tell that kids are really important to my life and that love ned sharing and he should share ur kids responability and love them like they'r his own and cos u forget everything when u r with so that is the right choice(2 nd guy) is the one.
2006-08-21 11:11:09 · answer #1 · answered by joe m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither- Guy #1 is a closer fit because he is the long term answer. He is respectful and loving -But he is married.
Guy #2 thinks of you as a booty call. He doesn't care about you or your kids. The feelings you have will wear out with the continued abuse. Your kids are only going to get older they need a positive role model.
Find a new guy who is available and treats you and your kids right.
2006-08-21 18:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Suesan W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go with either one. Guy #1 is married ... have a little respect for his wife - even if he doesn't. Guy #2 isn't that great with your kids - you said it yourself. Shouldn't you be looking for someone that is good in all areas?
2006-08-21 18:09:26 · answer #3 · answered by OohLaLa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of them. Guy#1 is MARRIED...Hello?! Guy #2 doesn't like your kids for a long time...Mister Wonderful? Go meet someone else. You don't need any of those men.
2006-08-21 18:07:47 · answer #4 · answered by serendipity 2 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
#1
2006-08-21 18:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by sexy momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u surely like guy number 2 but the thing is he seems not to care compared to guy number 1, so now it depends on you, if u want a long term go for guy number 1 but if u juz want a fling go to number 2.
2006-08-21 18:12:40 · answer #6 · answered by gorgeouschic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy # 1 because he more into you guy # 2don't even consider you as a gf
2006-08-21 18:06:39 · answer #7 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy #1, but if i didn't feel the same way back, neither. don't want to break their hearts by leading them on
2006-08-21 18:06:06 · answer #8 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy 2 as he seem more genuine and does not have a wife
2006-08-21 18:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by cheyenne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with guy #3.
2006-08-21 18:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋