Theres this Girl Ive seen and I like but she doesnt really know me at all
2006-08-21 10:52:44 · 26 answers · asked by ₪ ø Ξ .o• The Valiant 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You better start talking because women like to be approached by men (in a mannerable way). When you see this young lady speak to her and then strike a conversation. It could be about a school subject or class you are in (if you are in school). Loosen up, and don't be so shy. Try to get to know her first first. Become friends (talk on the telephone) and you will find it easier to ask her out. I don't think I would go out with someone who just walk up to me and ask me out.
2006-08-21 11:05:51 · answer #1 · answered by Shay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a very shy person so I can relate. The secret is to realize that life is about taking chances and when it comes to asking girls out the worst thing that can happen is just that they say no and you then you move on. So take time to say hi to this girl when ever you see her, learn more about who she is and what she is interested in and then talk to her about those things. While talking if she seems to be having a good time then just casually ask her if she wants to go out some time. If she says no then act like it is no big deal and keep talking and then later start searching for another girl.
2006-08-21 18:01:06 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont like that you are not getting good advice from others so I hope this helps. Dont ask her straight up or tell her that you like her. Its something about telling a person straight up that you like her or him it doesn't always work out right. Start by flirting with her feed her compliments and ask her if she likes a certain thing anything like ask her if she could go anywhere in the world where would it be or if she could be anyone who would it be. Just get to know her ask her questions and she will hopefully grow feelings for you.
If you dont even talk to her then it may be hard so try this dont hang out with girl friends she knows because the signal could get mixed up. or if she has a guys friend tell him to put in a good word for you to her or if she has a girl friend that you dont hang with or even if you already do tell her to put in a good word for you to the girl you like. You want the girl to notice you with out going straight up to her and telling her
I gave a guy a $1 once and he still didnt like me and I never went up to him becasue I was waiting for him to come up to me but I wasnt cute then either. Well Good Luck
2006-08-21 17:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by LaToya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what she's into. If there's something you have in common (don't make stuff up!) start up a conversation with her. It's hard going up to a girl, especially if she's with all her friends, but I think if you bring a friend or two then you, her and everyones friends can start a group conversation. Then after a little while you and her can break into your own chat!
2006-08-21 18:00:46 · answer #4 · answered by world_peas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant just ask her out off the bat...park urself near her every once in a while and talk about something u guys have in common...a class, the weather, dining hall food, things like that..she has to know u exist before u ask her to go out...introduce urself...u dont hafta say much..just hi did u see the show on mtv last night..blah blah..girls love the attention even if its for 10 seconds...if u see that she warms up to u and u can hold a conversation with her...then ask her for her im (since your on the shy side)..and talk to her online..its easier to talk to her online and eventually earn her phone number..then...your hot date is a simple phone call away...sounds hard..but with practice and experience..itll become second nature!..good luck
2006-08-21 18:03:07 · answer #5 · answered by mamitalinda31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should really get to know her first. It would be kinda wierd if u just went up 2 her and asked her out if she dosnt even no ur name... But ask her about her intrests and maybe you'll find u guys have somthin in common. and then after a while when u think the time is right.... ask her out.
just some words of advice
2006-08-21 18:05:05 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just start a conversation with her it could lead to other things or if your too shy to ask her out have a friend start talking to her than chime in and take over the conversation
2006-08-21 17:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jimbo23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to go up and talk even though u r shy, I am a girl so trust me on this, bring her a small CHEAP gift the THIRD time u talk to her dont give up, once u get to know her make sure u r ready and just simply ask her out if she says no just remain friends, if she says yes, Youve got wut u wanted! Good Luck!
2006-08-21 18:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to conversate and ask her for her AIM or any other online type of way to talk. Then get to know her and make sure shes single. Then ask her if she wants to go out to eat or something.
2006-08-21 17:59:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open communication is key. This builds trust . Women like this.
Just think of a conversation that you could have with her and approach her and be nice and start to talk. It's that simple, really.
2006-08-21 17:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋