im a guy who totally feels a womans needs comes first and foremost bar none and reciprocation should never be expected unless she wants to i say this because some guys i know all say HEY WHEN GETTING IT SHE DOES ME FIRST THEN ILL THINK ABOUT PLEASURING HER is it bad to be a giving guy to the point of being walked all over i just feel oposite that a guy should give pleasure with out comming up for air first but im sure there are woman who would be tickled pink to know there are guys who like to give but not get and would take advantage of it to just looking for a happy medium
2006-08-21 10:51:32 · 3 answers · asked by spirtual one 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with that at all. Probably alot more guys feel that way than women know. I'm the same way - I love to give and don't care about recieving. Make the woman happy - she's special and she deserves it.
2006-08-22 12:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have always found that when you make every effort to please your woman in bed, she will almost always do the same for you. If you find one that won't, figure out if she is "up tight" about sex, or just selfish. If it's the latter, then you can just move on because that's how she'll be about everything. If it's the former, you can keep on working on her. She'll come around.
2006-08-21 11:02:16 · answer #2 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tend to go with your beliefs....too bad most men don't feel that way...it might change their world, mightn't it?
2006-08-21 10:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋