What should I do?

Question

I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 weeks now and he has made me so happy. But I've been doubting our relationship. He talks to alot of other girls which I dont mind but I feel a little uncomfortable knowing that he is doing this. I was ganna break up with him a few weeks ago but he told me how happy I made him and that I was the only one that has ever made him feel this way and he calls other people my name by mistake. He makes me feel good about myself and he always has me smiling. He is gone for a week and I miss him alot but when he comes back I dont know what I should do. Should I break up with him or what? Advise please!

We were friends for about 2 months before he asked me out. I'm not jelous that he talks to other girls b/c I talk to other guys but just as a friend. I brought up another guy once and I can hear the tone of his voice was kinda sad so I wont do that again. He doesnt bring up other girls, maybe like twice he did but I was fine with it.

Answer 1

He makes you happy, you make him happy. That's ALL that matters. You get jealous of the other girls, because you care for him soo much. It's only natural, but it would be better for your relationship to stop doubting how much your borfriend (obviously) cares for you. "Don't regret something that makes you smile." And don't break up with him either!! Good Luck.

Answer 2

You said that your boyfriend talks to a lot of girls and you don't mind it, but you also feel uncomfortable by him doing this. You have a really big problem with him talking to these other girls whether you believe it or not. If you didn't you wouldn't be thinking about breaking it off with him. It seems you really do have feelings for this guy that are genuine, but the only problem is him talking to these other girls. First of all if he's your boyfriend he has no business still talking to other women. If you really want to save your relationship and be with this guy then you need to sit him down and tell him how much it bothers you, and that you want it to stop. He should have more respect for you were this is concerned. Don't always fall for the sweet things he says to you when you want to leave him because he's only doing it to keep you there. Be upfront and frank with him and let him know you mean business. If he continues then I would try finding me someone that will respect me in that area. You deserve that much. Good luck!!!!!!

Answer 3

it's only been 6 weeks to take a relationship that serious. why don't you talk to him and ask him where is this relationship heading? if he want just to date you, then you should tell him that you don't like it when he talk about other girls in front of you. is he only talking to other girls just friends or are he dating them. i think you need to talk about this issue with him before you decide to break up.conversation is the way to a healthy relationship...be honest....

Answer 4

6 weeks isnt really a very long time.......if he's talking to other girls maybe he isnt ready to date exclusively. Maybe you should get a few guy friends of your own. Guys always spit out alot of nonsense so keep your guard up!! Sounds like you are falling for him too quickly (not to be mean - just be careful!)

Answer 5

to me. you sound like the jealous girlfriend that doesnt want her boyfriend to talk to any other girl except you.

you have to realise that before you and him were going out he already knew other girls, they could even be his friends.

now if your boyfriend just randomly talks to a girl thats ok, but when he starts flirting and stuff that that would not be acceptable.

now have you told him about this? please tell me you have.
you need to talk to him and see where the relationship takes on from there.

maybe HE feels the same way when U talk to other men.
it plays both ways.

Best Advice: Talk to him about it.
if you guys cant even talk about feelings then it isnt love, its lust

Answer 6

just think..do u talk to other guys..like do u say hi and do u carry on a conversation with any of them.. and how do you know hes talking to girls..do u see him? if you do look at his body language and see if he likes her..trust him..worry about the girls not him..and give it a couple more weeks..and actually you shouldnt be having mixed feelings..i mean..talk to him about it..i know what ur going threw..i am too!!! we talk all the time..it helps the relationship grow and trust to be built..if he gets mad or upset about u talking to him about it..its cause he might like another girl..so..thats my advice hope it works out

Answer 7

I think that you should sit down and have a talk with him and let him know how you feel. Tell him that he is making you uncomfortable. And if he cant respect you for that then you don't really need him.

Answer 8

Open communication is key here. Always have open communication with him because that will build trust.

When guys speak about former g/f or dates, sometimes they are just trying to get over them and they are happy as heck that your there to listen. That means everything in the whole wide world to us when we have somebody like yourself who will listen and respond with maturity.

Answer 9

tell him you can do without the stories of other chicks.tell him it bores you to death,so you do not look insecure. and its only been six weeks.just relax and have fun enjoy dating.you don't have break up with him he can be a good friend to hang out with.you said he makes you happy.why undo your fun.stop nitpicking and enjoy your new friend.there are a lot worse men out here.you can handle him.

Answer 10

Talk about other guys and see how he reacts. He does not like it, tell him that is the same way you feel when he talks about other girls. If he blows it out of proportion, he is a hypocrite and does not deserve you.