guys and girls help me?please answer?

Question

i really like this girl in my class and she sits across the room from me and we hardly ever talk i want to ask her out but i dont know what to say to her or where she would like to go.

Answer 1

If you hardly ever talk to her, it's not a good idea to ask her out because, chances are, she'll say no. I'm not saying that she doesn't like you, but she just doesn't know you well enough to want to go out with you if you don't spend time with her. Talk to her (ask questions, tell jokes, talk about the class you are both in, etc.) and become friends and then just ask her out to the movies or something that you both enjoy doing. Make it simple.

Good luck!

L

Answer 2

Some teens are to shy to even speak the words. Try want the boys did years ago. Well maybe they still do it now. Write on a paper " I know we hardly talk but i've come to like you. I would like to take you out sometime." If she approaches you and agree's then you can ask what are her favorites places to go.
Good luck.
P.S. If she turns you down. Don't let it bother you. Its all part of life been a teen.

Answer 3

You need to get close to her. Who are her friends? Do you personally know anyone in her circle of friends? Find a social connection.. and try to get familiar with people she knows. At the same time start making little personal contacts with her. Be around her. Notice her - what are her interests? But do it naturally - no stalking my friend! Try to make eye contact. Be friendly - a considerate, friendly hello. Does she return your eye contact? Does she smile back? Try to get clues. Pick up on the clues. Be persistent but gentle in your approach. Try and get to know her and look for signs that she welcomes your interest. Once you know her and you see she is comfortable with you - take the time to get to know her and invite her to do things or go to events you enjoy. Ask her if she's going to the game? the dance? to see such and such a movie? invite her out with you and your friends. Or invite her with some of her friends? That way you create a social space or a social network that could support your relationship with her - it's not necessary but helpful. From this point you try and spend more time together - if she seems respond to your invites postitively - ask her out on a date.

Notice the little cues. Subtleties. Let's say you've made eye contact and smiled at her a few times. Said hello. Do you ever notice her looking at you first? Does she ever smile first? Or look at you waiting for you to say hello. Those are signs that she is interested. And that she likes what is developing between the two of you. Be patient - respect her person and her privacy.

Answer 4

Best way to break the ice is to start up a conversation with her. It can be about anything too.

Then once you've had the first or second conversation, invite her out to a coffee shop and just talk. Women like it when there is open communication because this builds trust.

Also, you have to be a genuine friend always too. This will last for a lifetime.

Answer 5

Just be yourself.

Unless you want to be what she wants you to be...then you can keep the charade going until she dumps you anyway for someone else who fits her needs...

But that is jumping the gun, just be yourself and go and talk to her. One of the best things I have found to get someone to talk to you, is to go up to her and give her a compliment then walk away and ignore her...I don't know why, but it always works. For some reason girls like the jerks.

If you do simply just be yourself and just talk to her, the best thing is to just listen and take in everything she says without being desperate. Listen to what she says, she will tell you things that she likes to do, then just ask your other friends where to go to the places she likes from the things she likes to do.

If you do talk to her and she turns you down, don't sweat it...your young and you have your whole life in front of you. Many more girls and dates for decades to come. But never pass up on a chance, you will regret it.

Answer 6

Is there a school activity coming soon (football game, etc.) that you could ask her to attend with you? That way there would be other people around and something happening, so that you would not have to think up lots of things to say. If everything goes well, you could invite her out for something to eat afterward.

Answer 7

We all been there. Get up the courage to approach her when noone else is around.Tell her you would like to get to know her better. Ask her if she would like to go for a walk and talk after school some day this week.

Answer 8

dude, you need to break the ice first. when you pass by her, each day. say " hi, how's going". once she feels comfortable with that after a while, ask her about her weekend. here is the important part, pay attention. listen for any clue for you to continue your conversation this will also give you ideas about what she likes to do for fun. once you find something that you might be able to do then, ask her to do or go with you. but most important is that you have to start talking to her.

Answer 9

Try and talk to one of her close friends and find out what she thinks about you. Or you can be brave and go up to her and ask how she is doing and then ask what she has planned this weekend and ask her if she would like to go to the movies with you.

Answer 10

i hated it when they sat across the classroom, cause then its twice as much work having to walk all the way over there and then talk to her. What you gotta do is go over to her desk as soon as the bell rings, preferably on a day where you just took a hard test so you have something to talk about.