I have known my girlfriend for 6 months and been going out with her for 2 months. She did an university project with her previous boyfriend 1 year ago. Yesterday she rang her ex-boyfriend to get details of this project. She did not actaully speak to him. Put the phone down before he answered. He walked out on her.
She told me about this. I became really upset. She has spent all of yesterday and today trying to reassure me that she feels nothing for him and that she loves me. Should I believe her?
2006-08-21 10:29:43 · 12 answers · asked by TRH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes, don't let this come between you.
Obviously, she doesn't even feel comfortable talking to him (after all she put the phone down) but if she needs project details, then the last thing she needs is you pitching a fit about her talking to the guy.
If she were trying to do something sneaky with him, she wouldn't have told you about calling him. Give yourself and her a break and move on. Try to be a little less insecure - it's not an attractive trait.
2006-08-21 10:35:38 · answer #1 · answered by JaneB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She hung the phone up before she even spoke to him. Don't be jealous over something like that. You're lucky she even told you she called him at all. If she wanted him, she would have hidden that call from you.
This is a small bit of advice, which you can take or leave. If you punish her for being honest, you will force her to be dishonest. If she can't tell you things without you getting angry, she will stop telling you, and hide innocent things from you for fear that you'll find something wrong with them. When you find out she lied about something innocent, you'll have the nerve to call her a liar when really... there's no one to blame but yourself.
2006-08-21 10:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes believe her. If she hung up the phone and didn't leave a message for him, then obviously she doesn't want him to call her back. If she would've left a message, I would be concerned. She told you about this, if she wasn't honest, she wouldn't have told you. Be glad she told you.
On the other hand, you do have a right to be enraged. I would be. Why couldn't she call someone else to help her out instead of him?
2006-08-21 13:36:17 · answer #3 · answered by KD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living up to now helps, does it now not? Bear in mind she is Ex - has been - past worrying - gone - over - moved on - out of your lifestyles. Don't even try to unmix the indicators, you'll get even more confused. Peace.
2016-08-09 12:10:51 · answer #4 · answered by elidia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living ago is helping, does it no longer? Remember she is Ex - has been - beyond aggravating - long past - over - moved on - from your lifestyles. Don't even attempt to unmix the indications, you can get much more careworn. Peace.
2016-08-21 00:38:37 · answer #5 · answered by adamek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, You should believe her.. ANd not be so jealous. If you keep asking her she's going to end up leaving you.. Believe me i've been in her shoes and its not fun so just believe her
2006-08-21 10:40:05 · answer #6 · answered by Crazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is the only key to the relationship. If there is something wrong or going on, you'll know it. YOu'll see.
2006-08-21 10:36:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it a rest. If the girl says she's not intrested in him, what's the porblem??
2006-08-21 10:41:40 · answer #8 · answered by Ironball 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her.
2006-08-21 10:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by skyeblue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any reason not to believe her? I think that you should believe her.
2006-08-21 10:35:16 · answer #10 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋