I have known my girlfriend for 6 months and been going out with her for 2 months. She did an university project with her previous boyfriend 1 year ago. Yesterday she rang her ex-boyfriend to get details of this project. She did not actaully speak to him. Put the phone down before he answered. He walked out on her.
She told me about this. I became really upset. She has spent all of yesterday and today trying to reassure me that she feels nothing for him and that she loves me. Should I believe her?
2006-08-21 10:25:45 · 7 answers · asked by TRH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Certainly you should. Act like a mature man and not a controlling little boy. Your girlfriend has the right to contact her ex about her project and would probably be fine with you doing the same if the shoe was reversed. Give the girl some credit and believe (and be grateful that she loves you).
2006-08-21 11:32:00 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Base on experience years back, my bf's ex gf was calling him for some excuses (like just a talk for whatever or help for something or whatever)..... and they ended up into something which my bf couldn't tell me unitl he knew I was trying to find out something (i had my own way how), so to make the story short, he admitted what happened and I was so mad as I trusted him eventhough he told me that he had to see her that time for any reason.
I am a woman but my advice is not mostly similar to other's opinion, if you trust your gf then believe her. If you KNOW she is happy with you then there's no doubt to worry but if you THINK she is happy with you then you have to know if she really is and make sure that she doesn't have any feelings for her ex. If she spent time trying to convince you and so you believe her, think about it. Was she guilty into something in doing that? You know, there are clever women who can manipulate men!
2006-08-21 20:07:11 · answer #2 · answered by Cherln 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you have just said, I would believe her. She doesn't want to speak with him and that was proven when she "did not actually speak with him" and "put the phone down before he answered". If she did not have a problem with him and how he treated her, she would have stayed on the phone and gotten whatever information she was looking to get from him.
2006-08-21 19:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by Patricia D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be live her.She's just doing a project with him.Not dating him again.So listen to her when she says that she loves you and only you. good luck
2006-08-21 17:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by Angel sent from heaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you really love her than you should believe her even if you have some doubts of it just believe her
2006-08-21 18:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lil Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
still calling bro bad news
2006-08-21 17:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're overreacting and should just believe her.
2006-08-21 18:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Nate 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋