What should I do now?

Question

My girlfriend just told me that she cheated on me and everything. She said that she was sorry, but I don't know if I should believe her. I haven't done anything wrong. Can you please tell me what to do.

Answer 1

Know that once a cheater always a cheater. It going to be very hard for you to accept if your still willing to forgive and be with her. It surprises me that she came out and told you this and if you can't deal or accept it then thank her for her honestly but let her know that this is something you will not be able to forgive nor forget. Although it may hurt to be without her know that someone out there is willing to treat and appreciate your love without slipping up like this. Good luck buddy!

Answer 2

Do u trust her? This decision rides all on UR shoulders, and no one elses. Did u believe her when she said she was sorry? If it was me, I would have to end the relationship, or take a break. Doing this, I guarantee u will make ur decision easier, because, 1.) after a while, she'll straighten up her act, or 2.) be over u, and the whole situation, . Do u think she's using this as a way to break up with u? How did u find out? If she told u herself, respect her honesty, but question her choice, but if u found out from somewhere else, that means she probably had no intentions of telling u at all.

Answer 3

This is real important to me, i wish i could comfort you, my son's name is also Brandon, so i want to slap your girlfreidns face,,

but i would not, it was just a passing thought,
Brandon, why did she tell you this,?

my real opinion is she is not ready to be with one person, and so do not hold lthat against her,
maybe she is doing you a favor.
if a person needs to cheat, (before they break up with you)

IT TELLS ME THEY ARE SELFISH AND MAYBE IMMATURE...
OR maybe she is very honorable, and realizes honesty is the best policy and she was confused, and we should not be so hard on her,

Pretend that she is really sorry, maybe she is too,
i think you should be a gentleman, and act like a very wise old soul, and tell her whatever you decide, but be kind, and then let her know, you need a resting period to rethink your feelings, and do not just say ok thanks honey, for honesty, and do not be mean, or a whimp either.. maybe this will give you some time to see clearly things that you should be thinking of in your life,

I am going to call my son Brandon now, he is adult, and i love him so much, and by the way, he is sensitive, and kind and great looking, yet some girls have taken advantage of his easy going nature, and hurt him, i want to slap them too. lol
not really, it is just love,
anyway good luck,i hope you find the answer that makes you feel the best.

Answer 4

i say leave her because by staying only sets you up for another time especially if you were being a good boyfriend. not sayin people cant change but i wouldnt take that chance. especially if i am being faithful and i know what im workin with, meaning that i have the ability to cheat but choose not. then someone go and cheat on me i dont think so. bottom line is if i can respect you you can do the same.

Answer 5

Sorry but its a good idea to break up with her.

Answer 6

give her another chance if you can do that and if she cheats on you again move on and find a better gf for urself

Answer 7

RUN!!! once a cheat always a cheat.

Answer 8

it'll hurt if you still love her but you need to let her know you won't put up with her....it's time for honey to taste the curb....sorry you have to deal with that!

Answer 9

Break up with her and find someone honest and caring.

Answer 10

break up with her