how do I get my girlfriend to have an orgasm fast? sometimes we go at it for 2-3 hours! any tips?

Answer 1

Some women are so tense it takes them forever to relax enough to really enjoy the stimulation.

How 'bout this. On a lazy day, draw her a hot bath. Light some candles. Pour her a glass of wine. Put her in the tub. Massage her feet. (Women love it.) Talk with her. When she's finished with the bath, lead her to the bed. Give a soft massage. As she relaxes, nibble her softly. Transition to full time nibbling then turn her over. Slowly and gently with no urgency at all nibble your way to her you-know-what and take her to heaven. Once she is fully relaxed, it may not take so long.

Answer 2

Ok sweetie, 2 or 3 hours WOW!!! but let me tell you this, foreplay, foreplay, foreplay!!! not just in the bedroom, it should start at the beginning of the day, wake her up with little kisses, run her a hot bath before work and tease her a little. Call her during the day and tell her what you want to do to her in every little detail. Having an orgasm is not just physical it is emotional also. Ask her to show you what she likes, and let her know how much it turns you on. A man will never know a womans body like she herself does, so be open and just take your time, it will pay off. And use lots of good lube, the wetter we are the more sensitive we are. Its the quality not the quanity that counts. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

The thing with the female orgasm is that it really doesn't happen "fast" but usually women orgasm within 10-20 minute of clitoral stimulation. Just so you know, only 20% of women can climax from penetration alone, which means clitoral stimulation is vital. Ask your girlfriend what feels good and even have her demonstrate on herself if she's able to give herself an orgasm.

Answer 4

Let her do it herself and watch. Does she enjoy everything else? If so, stop fretting over her orgasm. Let her relax and just have fun without the pressure of having to come. It doesn't need to happen every time for the sex to be enjoyable, unless of course she insists on it. Personally I think that would be way too much stress and take away from the pleasure. It's only sex after all.

Answer 5

That might not be possible... and it's not something we can advise you on too well cause everyone's buttons are different. *snicker*

Seriously, though, concentrate on her. Read some how-tos, and try everything. See what gets her off faster or slower. But... for the record... I like having sex for 2 or 3 hours just because it's fun. That might be her.

And you all think all guys wanna do is bang bang bang... *s*

Answer 6

I think foreplay is essential - take the time before you go at it to set the mood and make the moment right. Create a romantic setting, act with passion - focus on all of her errogenous parts. Let her tell you where she likes to be touched, kissed, and rubbed. Don't be hesitant or shy. She wants you to be a man, but respond to her needs.

Don't think that you just need to put it in and she will enjoy that. You've got to focus on her needs and desires and take it slow - remember, its not a race.

Answer 7

And that is a problem????? If only I could have it 2 or 3 hours!!! WOW! If you are serious get the "silver bullett" and use it during the act and that will cut the time down dramatically

Answer 8

foreplay for a woman normally gets her ready for the arousal during intercourse. also if she is on top alot of woman find this position easy to have an orgasm.

Answer 9

Tell her to put your hands where she wants them and to move them for you until you get the hang of it. If she's too shy at first...be persistent...she'll thank you later. Nothing wrong with being clueless...women are a lot more particular than men!

Answer 10

hey buddy if my cock was detachable i am sure it would do the trick for her but, unfortunately it is not so i suggest you get a few toys to help stimulate her before hand hoping she will release in short amount of time.