2006-08-21 09:42:36 · 14 answers · asked by zxcvbnm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
With me its very unlikely.
2006-08-21 09:49:07 · answer #1 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would really depend upon you, the other person, the maturity level, and the reasons for the break up. A lot of reasons, huh? Remember, that as humans, we are subject to all sorts of feelings, disappointments, anger, jealousies, etc. There are so many positive aspects to remaining friends, but there are a few negative ones too. I would ask you to think long and hard to yourself about these questions, and if you feel you can move forward, then set up a time to discuss this with your ex. Be prepared, though, for this to go either way. Sometimes, a physician has to "cut" to "heal". Sad, but true. Best of luck.
2006-08-21 09:52:52 · answer #2 · answered by Michael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many of us would like to believe that breaking up with someone isn't going to change our friendship with that person, But it always does. Afterwards (based on how long you were with that person, and the feelings between you two) many times it hurts too bad to see them with someone else. And many times we do things knowing that it's going to hurt the other person, to get "back" at them. The only way you can be friends with someone after a break up, is to give each other time to move on. And only after BOTH have fully moved on can you really be friends.
2006-08-21 09:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by kajasue123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BIG POSSIBILITY. I'm friends with my ex. This didnt happen overnight though. When we first broke up I vowed not to ever talk to him again, but after some maturity, and the jealousy, and bitterness toward him subsided, he became a VERY good buddy. Sometimes men and women arent supposed to be loves, but just friends u know, people think just because we get along with someone from the opposite sex, its always suppose to be, or can be more, but sometimes we're just meant to be, and are BETTER off as just pals. Now my ex and I talk about our dating dilemmas, crushes, everything, he gives me some of the best advice.
2006-08-21 09:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by funkygurll 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can most definitly be friendly but to remain friends is almost impossible. When both people move on and to someone new the chances are that the new boy/girl friend will not like it too well and so there's where the friendly hello's may be fine but the "Can we hang out or chat online?" Will not work.
2006-08-21 09:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much of a possibility since after a break-up they hate each other
2006-08-21 09:50:38 · answer #6 · answered by Cubanita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-Very unlikely, the problem is that sooner or later ur gonna want 2 give it another try, then u will remember why u broke up in the 1st place, save yourself the trouble and find another friend, one that u havent dated!
2006-08-21 09:52:15 · answer #7 · answered by Nay Nay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm trying to do that rite now & it's so hard. i try to stay cool & calm when i know he's probably out with other women & i'm sure he feels the same. it is a little weird cause boundaries have not been set - like how many times a week do you call each other? i try not to make myself too available to him like i did when we were dating. bottom line - it screws with your emotions, but i'm not ready to give him up entirely.
2006-08-21 09:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF you're a guy 50-50, if you are a girl 30-for, 70 aginst.
2006-08-21 09:49:26 · answer #9 · answered by Toni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the odds are slim to none!!!just because you break up doesn't mean the feelings just go away and jealousy will come out everytime.
2006-08-21 09:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very low...you may be friends mentally but not physically, so no more hanging out...let go.
2006-08-21 09:49:17 · answer #11 · answered by Jr Thompson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋