Girls Help Me?

Question

I've been good friends w/ all the girls in my class for a long time, they always tell me how nice i am but then when i ask them out they say "no we're too good of friends i don't want to break that," then they go out w/ some jerk and i'm still a good friend, how do i change that??????????

Answer 1

Well i have guy friends that hang out with mostly girls. If you are really good friends you can try and ask them to introduce you to a girl and see if she in intrested you and if so ask her out. Normally when guy are friends with a lot of girls the girl just doesn't like them i that way. One of your girl friends could really like you but you have to figure out who. You can also try to date a girl older or younger. Good luck

Answer 2

Honestly, you sound like a nice guy. I wouldn't worry about finding a girl too much. Possibly you may just need to be more assertive, if you meet a girl you like don't worry about being her friend, just ask her out. Also if there is a particular friend you are interested in try going to do some things just the two of you as "friends". She might change her mind. Good luck!

Answer 3

Then theres something wrong. Try getting interested in girls outside your class for a while. Stay friends with them, just act totally uninterested in anything but that. Maybe your being too pushy. Either way, for some reason, you can't keep going on like you are.

Answer 4

Be really flirty right off the bat when you meet girls. Don't always say what you think they want to hear and don't be the shoulder to cry on when they break up or are after another guy. Be funny laugh and make jokes... don't be a quiet nerd. There have been plently of ugly funny dudes getting good looking girls because every gal likes to be around someone who can make her laugh. (Not to say you are ugly or anything!)....Good luck!!

Answer 5

when you say them it seems like you've lined the entire class up and tried to ask at east each person out once therefore, you are coming on too strong and looking very desperate . if you were interested in one girl only instead of trying to get anyone and then move on to the next then one of the girls might find you pretty special can you imagine how each girl feels after being asked out the saying no because they might have ne legitimately speaking about your friendship, but then when you move on to the next ..I'll tell you now they start noticing a pattern and ..sorry but no-ones interested in that.

Answer 6

Try being flirtier with the girls, dress cool, BE cool, but don't be an asshole. Girls like guys with confidece and that they know that they are hot but not when they are snobby, and jerks. Of course always remember to be a gentleman with the ladies.

Answer 7

-Truth is Im the same way when it comes to guys. I grew up with brothers so I'm the perfect chic friend to a guy, but none of them date me, I figure its because they already know too much about me, how I would react what I would say ect, plus I know all their dirt too, so its best to date outside of that girlfriend circle, sometimes woman dont want freinds they want someone who is known to them strictly as a boyfriend...

Answer 8

You need to make yourself more sexually attractive, start working out, wear different clothes, be more flirtatious when you talk, smile more...If they're saying that, it means that they don't "see you in that way", which means you're reaching them on more of a girl friend level.

Answer 9

i've known my honey for 14 years...we've been together alomost 4 now
if it's meant to be then it will be...they will make their mistakes with the jerks in their lives and eventually they'll see what was right there all along...hopefully you won't blow it when you get the chance

Answer 10

i m sorry. some girls just want to be friends with a certain guy, because though he is nice, they arn't attracted to him because they have known him forever. it's tough, but someday a great girl will like u back, u just mite have to wait a while.