I do everything for this girl, money wise, I listen to her, I take her places, she is completely satisfied with out sex life (her friends have told me she likes to brag... weird I know)... but no matter what I do she just wants more and more. She never wants me to be around my life long friends and when I do she will fight and gripe at me that they mean more to me than she does for the next week or until she finds something else to fight with me about. Its gotten to the point that I think I might hate her. But on the same hand I don't want to be without her. She has been there for me through hard times and we have formed a bond that is strong, so strong that I get really depressed when we don't talk for a couple days after a bad fight. When times are good, life is good, its just that good times are usually short lived. I don't want people to tell me weather or not to stay with her, i was wondering if anyone else has gone through this and if things worked out in the end or not.
2006-08-21 09:30:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah what it sounds like is your girl has some growing up to do. A successful relationship allows space. she has to let you see your freinds so you have the chance and time to miss her. She sounds like she is whipped to... So maybe try to get her friends to take her out more. She needs a life. she have to understand that you have to live too. If you were around her 24 hours a day you will go crazy.. that's anyone. I love when my man goes to spend time with his friends because that gives me some "ME TIME"..... time that i can plan things for him... like run his bath water.. cook him a romantic dinner... She just need some real friends I think thats the issue.. she have friends but she rather be with you...
2006-08-21 09:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a personal experience two years ago with a similar situation but it didn't work out in the end mostly because I realized that I was becoming quite desperate and obsessive and I wanted them all to myself and I didn't like when they spent time with their friends. They broke up with me and in the end I was heartbroken but overall it worked out better because I learned a lot about myself and my behavior...and actually when I look back on it, I realize that it was an unhealthy relationship to begin with.
2006-08-21 09:40:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wants to dominate you, take your money, use you up, and then dump you. cut the rope and move on!
2006-08-21 09:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by lou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋