Pregnant Woman????

Question

i just was wanting to know if any of you have ever had a bad feeling that something bad is going to happen to you like you will die in labor??? i keep having that feeling and i can see myself telling my husband bye and i get really upset and i start crying. i don't want anyone else raising my baby girl... she's mine. i have cried myself to sleep for the past 2-3 nights. i don't think this is normal but is??? and i know that i ain't suspose get upset but i do.


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Answer 1

I had all sorts of weird crazy dreams towards the end of both of my pregnancies. I talked to my doctor and she told me they were normal. Your hormornes are all wacky and your trying to picture what your life is going to be like with a child in it. My best advice and it worked for me is just relax and enjoy the pregnancy. Try thinking of playing with her and talking to her and making her laugh. Find some cute little baby books you can read to her while she is in your stomach and continue it when she is born. If your into scrapbooking or something like that make a few pages ahead of time so all you have to do is add pictures and journal (cause you won't have time once she is born) Just make your self busy doing stuff that actually makes it a reality that she is going to be in your every day life. Hope this helps and congrats on your pregnancy and your little girl.

Answer 2

Your life is not about you anymore, you are the main caregiver to this life growing inside of you. Anxiety and fear are normal, but don't get carried away with it. It is fear of the unknown, you have never done it before so you don't know what to expect. But look at how many women make it just fine. It hurts, it is exhausting, it does the strangest things to your body. But you will hold that little prize in the end so try not to worry. I had the same thoughts before I had my 3rd. I knew something bad would happen and my other 2 kids would grow up Mommyless. I could not get rid of the guilt of being so selfish and wanting another baby, felt like I should have been content with them and not risked their future. My son was an emergency C section, and the Drs and nurses were awesome. You are having a baby at a wonderful time in science. Not a whole lot can go wrong that is not fixable. Breathe easy, what will be will be. No matter how much you worry, you cannot change it. Just love being pregnant and try to think about meeting your baby. It is awesome!

Answer 3

Alot of women have uncontrollable emotions when they are pregnant.
Do you have much esp? Can you often " tell the future"? Im not trying to sound sarcastic... honestly... is there something that you can base your feelings on? Did you have a dream of a vision? Can you tell anything about how your death might come about?
If you can ... and even if you cant .. talk to your doctor. They might try and dismiss you as an emotional pregnant woman ... but dont let them.. ask about councelling maybe? See if there is some thing in your past that may be triggering this feeling.
Did a realtive of yours die during labour? Have you recently read about it? or watched a Tv show?
If like I said you do have some kind of esp or the thought becomes reoccuring.. keep a record of it, write it down... everytime and then look for consitencies in it. Talk again to your doctor and have them watch a little closer during your labour.
I hope that this is just an emotional thing on your part. Im sure things will go fine.

When I was pregnant I had these dreams that my son was always taken away from me. I would be screaming and freaking out to get him back ... everytime he would be taken away.
And you know what? I gave birth to a GIRL.
( hence my "son" was taken away. ) Get it ;)

Answer 4

Hi, This is perfectly normal. I am having my third child and I am still scared and think about it all the time. I had a severe tear with my 1st labor and had a massive bleed which they were getting ready to take me to theatre with and so when I had my 2nd I kept talking about when I go into labor and die all the time.

I am getting close to the time when I am about to give birth again and I cant stop thinking about my hubby being left behind with 3 children all under 3 and how he would cope.

So, I completely understand. but hang in there, chances are nothing will go wrong as my doctor says - Women have been giving birth for centuries.

Answer 5

i do not quite comprehend... are you asking if a woman who's at the moment pregnant, 3-5 months alongside, can get pregnant with a 2d infant throughout an same being pregnant? if so, no this isn't plausible as a results of very undeniable actuality that the cervix/uterus is closed off (mucus plug and whatnot) If even with the undeniable fact that you mean a woman who's had slightly one 3-5 months previously, definite it really is plausible to get pregnant back so quickly after having the youngster.

Answer 6

It is normal to be scared of childbirth, especially if this is your first child. In todays society and medical expertice, it is rare for a women to die during childbirth. If there are complications, an emergency c section is done. Don't worry. Kepp you mind focused on the moment you can finally look your baby in the eyes and about what kind of life you two will have together. I was a hard labor and delivery and had some complications, but the doc took great care of me and my baby and the second I saw her, all of the pain was gone. Congrats on your baby!

Answer 7

Did the Dr say all is ok? you dont mention how far along you are? Hormones can play a big role in our feelings while being pregnant. If you are concerned that much or think maybe this will happen, talk to your Dr to be reassured. I had that thought cross my mind but that was all it did. I had to think positive about it all. I was scared being on bedrest for 6 weeks prior to due date and having a one vessel cord that my baby only got what he needed from only one vien in the umbilical cord. Then I had to have an emergency c section and yes I did think I could bleed out and die or something but you know, if it is meant to be it will be but worrying about it will drive you crazy! Maybe pray about it and leave it to God to help you through this time. You will be fine. :)

Answer 8

It is not uncommon for a pregnant woman to have those types of feelings of death during birth and not being there to raise their child, just like bad dreams during pregnacy, they are pretty common. Your hormones goes from high to low in a moments notice during pregnancy and you can't always remain in control of them, and shouldn't be expected to. Try to just stay calm, i know easier said then done, but I have had 4 pregnancies and with each was the concern what if something happens to me and I leave my children without a mommy. You should be just fine:) Hope you can find some peace and enjoy your baby's arrival:)

Answer 9

Some of my pregnancy books make mention of this type of feeling. They say it's pretty normal, but that you need to make an effort to relax and overcome it. It can even rear it's ugly head again after the baby is born. The best thing you can do is relax as much as possible because stress releases stress hormones, and the longer your baby is exposed to your elevated stress hormones the more you are effecting the baby negatively.

Answer 10

You poor thing!

There is something to mother's instinct, but when you are pregnant, it gets thrown off by all your raging "horrormones." Really, chalk it off to hormones, sleep, take bubble baths, and try to get your mind off of it. If you are stressed now, your sweet little girl might feel it. Work on staying positive for her. I would tell myself over and over that my baby would be beautiful and healthy every time I had a bad feeling. After awhile, I stopped having those thoughts! Hang in there......