2006-08-21 09:24:07 · 15 answers · asked by swoosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No talking on a phone is not considering cheating. It's what you do after you talk on the phone such as you meet somewhere, etc.
2006-08-21 09:31:28 · answer #1 · answered by kitcat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not if it is just "talking on the phone". I used to talk to my ex-boyfriends all the time until my current boyfriend put an end to all of it. It's hard. Sometimes when you break up with someone, you still want to be friends. Just because you are not physically with someone any more, doesn't mean that you can't just be friends on a non-physical level. My current man doesn't understand that one bit. I had to totally put a stop to talking to ex-boyfriends comepletely because it was totally coming between us. In retrospect, if I found out that he was talking to his ex-girlfriends all the time on the phone, I would be pissed. It's just better this way that I don't talk to any of them anymore. It's hard to let go of those feelings and start something new with someone when you are still talking to an ex. PERIOD! I know, I went through it. When I discountinued the relationship completely, that is when I started having really strong feelings for my current man and we did a whole lot better. Now, it's a year later, we are having our first child together in October and we are getting married. I've never been more in love. I had to let go.
2006-08-21 09:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Brooke's Mommy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no, gfs/bfs talk to all kinds of people, including their ex's, and its not cheating. Talking on the phone to an ex, is simply that - talking. Now, if they were making out (or worse) with them w/o your knowledge, that would be a different story.....best wishes!:)
2006-08-21 09:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, it's not cheating. But you should question your bf/gf on why they talked to their ex, what did they talk about, and yes you do have a right to know and if they won't tell you then you know somethings up.
2006-08-21 09:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you are just casually talking, it isn't cheating. As soon as it turns into dates, phone sex, or anything else, it is. You should just get over your ex and move on to the person you are with now.
2006-08-21 09:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking on the phone isn't cheating, my question is what is he/she affraid of coming out of it if they don't trust you enough to let you know the truth about whats going on.
2006-08-21 09:34:17 · answer #6 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I wouldn't say it's cheating. It's ok to talk to your ex. They are a part of your life, but if he or she is hiding it from you intentially, that's dishonesty and I wouldn't put up with it.
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2006-08-21 09:34:49 · answer #7 · answered by anab113 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm if you asked and she lied and said no, then it probably is cause she's not being loyal. If she honestly didn't think you cared then no it's not. If she thought you would overreact and she actually is being loyal, then it's definitely not cheating either.
2006-08-21 09:31:18 · answer #8 · answered by pieninja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, WHY are they talking to an ex?
2006-08-21 09:39:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes becuase you dont know what is being said over the phone
2006-08-21 09:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by punkasswhitegurl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋