My boyfriend and i have been together for almost two years now, he had cheated on me and the girl called me and now they not together so he says. But she has migrated and still keeps calling him and he tells me about it. But then a few nights ago he opened a hi5 profile and instead of tryin to add me first she was the first person he looked for and he said that his cousin did it but i dont beleive him. He say he dont like her no more and talks bad about her n always tell me wat she call him n say but i am confused wondering if he still wants to be with her instead of me. He says she gotten fat and ugly now but i wonder if he will talk the same way about me to his other women if we break up.
2006-08-21 09:23:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
leave his sorry *** he doesn't deserve you if he wants(and i know he does want her back)his x back let him be and he always dissing her when he's around her means that he still wants her.dont believe wat he says about not wanting her cause he does but he also wants you too.if he wants both of you,you know wat you got to do{leave him} anyways got to jet hope you make the right decision
2006-08-21 10:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by Kappy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's time for you to break up with him and move on with your life. He is playing you for a fool. If you choose to stay with him, he will continue to do this because he knows you will put up with it. As the saying goes, "once a cheater, always a cheater." There are some really nice guys out there who won't cheat on you and will treat you the way you should be treated.
2006-08-21 09:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by jtj 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you want someone who has lied not just to you but to this other girl also. Don't lower yourself to his level. You can do better than that. If he is telling you this about her then just think about what he is telling her about you. WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE GIRL.!!! He is see not just you but he is also see her maybe not physically but by talking to her. He could be even seeing someone else on the side for all you know. Get a life girl.
2006-08-21 09:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by merrybears200 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him NOW. And yes, he will talk about you the exact same way he is talking about her. It sounds to me like he wants to break up with you but would rather have you dump him so that he sounds like the good guy.
2006-08-21 09:34:28 · answer #4 · answered by startwinkle05 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has shown you his true colors. He has no loyalty and basically broke-up with you when he went over to her - he caused the rift. Yes, he will talk about you the same way he talks about her.
2006-08-21 09:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him he doesnt deserve you. i know it may be hard because you've been together so long and you might love him but u dont do that to ppl you care about. you deserve better and can do better too. he sounds like a jackass who doesnt know what he has.
2006-08-21 09:46:37 · answer #6 · answered by Cadra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't put up with this. He cheated on you. Cut your losses and move on.
2006-08-21 09:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by redeemed 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't suggest getting into any relationships for a while until you're established.
2006-08-21 09:31:08 · answer #8 · answered by Answerer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow your head not your heart if you want to chose the write answer
2006-08-21 10:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by mary m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get rid of him...once a cheater always a cheater...I will bet you anything he is still seeing her....DUMP HIM!!!!!!!!
2006-08-21 09:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Shortie1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋