okay this boy i really really really like is on the football team ,
im friends with him but im not sure if he sees me as a gf or not
is there anyway i can get him to notice me or even possibly get a date with him ? advice anyone on how to get him to see me as that kind of girl ???
help please
2006-08-21 09:22:35 · 23 answers · asked by falloutboy_lover1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ugh, another teenager asking a relationship question.
Uh, tell him how you feel
If he doesn't feel the same...
IT'S THE END OF THE WORLD
So, please notify me immediately if he says "no" so I can make plans
2006-08-21 09:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, DON"T tell everyone about your feelings. If it gets back to him that you like him and that everyone is talking about it it will embarrass the heck out of him and your chances are shot for sure. You said he plays football, Try out for cheerleader. As bad as it seems football players love their cheerleaders. If you can't make the squad, cheer for him on the side lines. At some point and time, in school and at the games, try to make eye contact with him. If you do, smile real coy and don't break the stare, let him. At least then, if he likes what he sees, he will make the first move and that will make him feel macho. Men love to feel macho and if you make him feel that way, YOU got him. But also, if he asks you out, DO NOT sleep with him. If you are sexually active already you know that being too quick to sleep with him will make him never ask you out again.
2006-08-21 16:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U really,really,really like him ? Cool. Just be yourself around him, maybe flash him one of your best *smiles*
Ask him out on a group date* Say, Hey I was wondering some of my friends and I are going to the mall to hang out, would you like to come with us ?* ( just an example)
that way if he is not interested in you then you won't get your feelings to hurt !
I feel friendship is the key to any great relationship!
2006-08-21 16:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by BabyDoll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how good of friends are you with him? if you both know each other pretty well then just ask him if he wants to hang out sometime, get food or go to the movies and if you get the chance to go, wear something nice to show yourself off, that for sure will get his attention and he will notice you then. Make him laugh, touch him and flirt with him, just have fun.
2006-08-21 16:30:39 · answer #4 · answered by flowergal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is, kinda sorta hang aroung him. You know when you see him in the hallway, give him a hug. When he says something that makes you laugh, do a cute giggle. (Don't be loud) Give him the eye.
But dont do the Full APPROACH! (that will make you seem too on the prow) He will notice it, too.
Best of Luck!
2006-08-21 16:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only thing you can really do is get to know him better and maybe flirt with him but only mild flirting at first. then if you see that he is kinda interested turn it up a knoch. then the only other thing you can do is have a friend find out what he thinks of you. but sometimes that ends up hurting you to find out what he REALLY thinks.
best of luck
2006-08-21 16:31:26 · answer #6 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically, the BEST advice for you is to find out. How do you find out, First thing isl you talk to him...get the answers to your questions from the source...dont be scared! You have absolutely nothing to lose!
2006-08-21 16:34:03 · answer #7 · answered by mami17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Steve's kinda f***ed up..... make plans? For the end of the world?? Uh... oookay
And yeah, Ugh, another teenag....uh.. nevermind.
But like Stevo up there said, ask him out (or didn't say) and ask him if he feels the same way. C'mon!! Just do it already (do it or do him) but wait till marrige.
2 points!!
2006-08-21 16:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by bizzle_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the best way to get a boy to notice you is by using the stright approch a go talk to him trust me you will see great results
2006-08-21 16:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by Jazzy305 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send him the wrong signal---if you act yourself and sort of let me know you are attracted to him, he probably will respond. If he doesn't, then maybe the feeling isn't mutual. It wouldn't hurt to ask him if he's seeing someone. Lots of luck!!
2006-08-21 16:33:13 · answer #10 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to meet you after school or slip him your phone number and tell him to call you. If he meets up with you or calls, he may be interested. You may have to take the first step though. Guys are shy too.
2006-08-21 16:31:28 · answer #11 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋