im seeing this guy who told me how he wants a serious relationship, which means he wants to move in with a girl and be serious, hes 21 almost 22 and im only 18 and still have one more yr in high school. but now i really like him and even though he said hes poor and that his life is really ****** up i dont rlly care, but the part with him wanting a girl to move in with, i dont know if i should just forget about him or wait and see what happens later on....
2006-08-21 09:15:54 · 18 answers · asked by jerzeygrl420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, a guy who life if f*cked up usually ends up f*cking up the lives of those around him
So if you like that sort of thing - yeah - go for it
Jump in bed
Get pregnant
When he ends up in jail, you get to raise his kid by yourself
Live in a motel room
See him on Visitors Day
Great life!
2006-08-21 09:21:56 · answer #1 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly you're still in high school and he's at least 3-4 years older than you. Those relationships usually don't work out the best. If you do end up being with him, there's a chance you might lose your chance at college life/partying/college fun and a chance at not meeting new people. If he says he is serious then chances are he's looking for a potential wife and wants to get married soon..think about that.
2006-08-21 09:26:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters don't you live at home with your parents? He couldn't move in with you in that case. If you don't want to move in with him tell him your parents won't let you until your out of HS...You definately don't want to be with a loser and that's what he sounds like. If he's 22 and says he's poor...doesn't he work? you also don't need someone who's life is ****** up...your just starting yours and you want it to be a good life. Don't start out with someone who will probably bring you down to a lower level than you could possibly be at. You must have plans for after HS and should stick to them. Don't let a man dictate what you do with your life or change your plans for him. You sound like a smart girl. Forget about the guy and concentrate on your grades at school. Don't feel bad for him because that's what he wants...your sympathy. He's poor so he's probably thinking he will depend on you to pay the bills...is that what you really want? Think hard about this before you do anthing. Good lUck
2006-08-21 09:26:28 · answer #3 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he tell you that a serious relationship to him means living together. I personally think that 21 is too young to be living with someone of the opposite sex. Unless it's just a roommate. But to have a live in bf or gf, wow. You are only 18. I would tell you to wait it out. Finish school. Go to college. You have a lot of time to worry about guys and getting that serious with someone. Find out who you are first.
2006-08-21 09:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My God, don't let him move in or you move in with him.
There's no future in that relationship, he's a user and he will use you and then drop you like a hot stone. Forget him, tell him when he has an established life he can come back again and that will not happen in a long shot.
Trust me on this, please. Finish your High School, go to college or get a decent job.
2006-08-21 09:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there's no harm in continuing with this guy. Just be careful and be honest. He's told you what he's looking for and you need to tell him what you want. If you're not into being too serious and not into moving in with him than you need to let him know. That way he can also decide if he wants to continue.
2006-08-21 09:23:13 · answer #6 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. He's going nowhere. He's almost 22 and hasn't done anything to improve himself or his life, he is probably thinking that a girl would 'fix' his issues, she won't. You need to care if you are thinking about being in a seriously relationship with this guy that means his problems become your problems and his crappy life becomes your crappy life and his lack of money becomes your lack of money...do you want to live that way or do you want to wait and decide to spend your time with someone who has his poop in a group and is going somewhere in life?
2006-08-21 09:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not move in with him till your out of high school if you are still dating him when you graduate then consider it.
But if you do it now the chances of you graduating deminish by 50%
If hes pushing you into it then move on away from him because he obviously dosent care about your future only himself and his selfish needs.
2006-08-21 09:23:34 · answer #8 · answered by bree30 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont move in with him until your ready. If he says he has no money then he shouldnt be trying to move out until he gets his money straightened up. But if you really like him theres no reason why you cant still be with him.
2006-08-21 09:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by gingersnappz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 09:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋