How can i understand people?

Question

i'm a comupter programmer and all my life is programming and computers. nothing than a good c++ source code impress me. girls do like me caz i'm professional. but they dont like me caz i donnow how to treat them right, what should i do?

Answer 1

It is easy for me to say= but that is an easy question,

I think that it is good that you are a computer programmer and you must be sucessful, and it looks that way, by the way you speak of yourself,

Maybe a little over stated about yourself, because you act as though you have been locked in some kind of government project by the way you distance yourself from anything else in life,, pls get real,

Unless you have been kept on planet mars away from civilization, stop hiding behing your attitude, You do communicate with other "humans" YOU TREAT PEOPLE AS YOU WANT TO BE TREATED, IS A GREAT START,

how did your father treat your mother, you have friends who have girlfriends, and you know how to treat a girl,
IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU WANT TO MAKE YOURSELF A MAN IN HIS OWN WORLD THAT HAS NO CLUE ON HOW TO TREAT GIRLS,

IF YOU CONTINUE TO HIDE BEHIND THIS FACADE THEN I SUGGEST YOU PRETEND THE FEMALES IN QUESTION, ARE A COMPUTER, BECAUSE,THEN YOU WOULD BE AN EXPRT,, RIGHT?

by the way,, remaining to be a legend in your own mind, will keep you exactly that,,
and to the rest of the world, NO BIG DEAL,

Answer 2

You need to get out more and interact with people more. Not necessarily just women. Engage in conversations with people and listen and learn how to respond in an appropriate manner.

Gain some interests outside of programming. Preferably something that doesn't have anything to do with computers. You will then relax and feel more at ease when interacting with women.

Impressing women ain't C++ programming!