My special friend, not a bf yet, who I love and loves me too is having a birthday party with his friends in his house. I overheard him talking to his girl friend that they're going to give him a "free sex" gift. I'm not pretty sure if I heard it right. The only thing that gives me a hint is how open-minded are his friends about sex. Now I'm thinking twice whether or not I will attend to his party. We haven't told anyone yet about our feelings for each other. I am just afraid that I might get hurt when something or someone from his friends shows that crazy act. I already told him that I may not be around on that day and he said that he will spend another celebration of his brithday with me. Am I too aloof not to be around with his friends? Or should I just be there and see what happens and be ready for whatever things that will happen? Most of the people who will attend are girls and I heard that some of them like him. Please advise me.
2006-08-21 09:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by SeriouslyInLove 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF you meant you heard him talking to a girl that is his friend, then you would be crazy not to go. You ask if it is good to be in his birthday party and all I could think was that it was better to be his birthday party!!!!
If you are concerned about what is going on, go and find out. Don't be one of those girls that think "if I don't see it it didn't happen" I hate that.
2006-08-21 09:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, it's up to you. it's your call. If you don't attend the party, no bid deal because you'll get to celebrate it alone with him, and if you do attend the party just be cautious and aware that something could happen. expect the unexpected if you do go and realize that this "free sex" gift might happen and you might get hurt. forwarn yourself in advance so you don't get upset too much or have it come as a surprise if you do attend the party.
2006-08-21 16:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by flowergal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best bet is just leave him alone. If he has a girlfriend she should be worried about it not you. Think of it this way. If he ends up doing stuff with many people at one time you never know what he or they could end up catching. Be safe and get out now.
2006-08-21 16:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by movu101779 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel like your going to have to attend the party. Bring your own transportation and if things start to get hairy, then just leave without telling him goodbye. If hes really sincere and really likes you then he will have gotten the point.
2006-08-21 16:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by stephanierudder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have a trusted friend to go with you, It would be better. But dont worry, I dont think some one is "smart" enough to hurt who he loves.
2006-08-21 16:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by AlvaDaGansta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends they throw sex around like a sports water bottle.
If he takes the up on the sex then he doesn't love you!!! he loves sex with anyone he can get it from!!!!you don't screw other people when you in love with some one!!!!
2006-08-21 16:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just trying to use you for pleasure like he uses the rest of those girls. Find someone better.
2006-08-21 16:19:57 · answer #7 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally i would not want to go because i would not want to get my heart broken, but honey its up to you
2006-08-21 16:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by oezsoy_pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's gotta a girlfriend, if he loves you , it means he doesn't love his girlfriend so just confront him and tell him to make a choise , you or his girl friend.good luck
2006-08-21 16:21:40 · answer #9 · answered by z y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing going after a man who is unavailable. Find another.
2006-08-21 16:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by pamspraises 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋