What do you wear to a funeral?

Question

For a girl do you wear a dress, a skirt, pants? sunglasses? im going 2 a funeral soon and i don't know what to wear....

i guess i wasn't clear enough.... I live in Florida. I don't need to pick up a date and its for my grandmother so yes i will be going to the burial site after words...

Answer 1

Doesn't matter as long as its conservative and dark colored.

Answer 2

I agree with most of the other commenters - if the funeral is in the US or another Western country, wear a dark color, such as black or navy blue. Dress as conservatively as possible, and make sure that the outfit is business-casual/semi-formal. Meaning, a simple skirt (no shorter than at the knees) and a blouse would be fine, as would a simple black dress or pant suit. The entire idea is to be respectful to the mourning family members, and to not wear anything that would draw attention. More and more, the funeral culture is changing, and people are wearing black and white - that's fine, too, but I wouldn't be too adventurous in choosing accent colors.

And as a side note: I am sorry for your loss. Funerals are hard, so don't worry too much about the outfit, because as long as you blend in, people won't notice what you're wearing.

Answer 3

Black and white are the appropriate colors for a funeral. Any other colors are disrespectful (like pink). For girls, a black dress or a long skirt is ok. The shortest the skirt could be is up to the knees, no higher! Wear a white shirt with the black skirt, or vice versa. You can wear pants if you dont have a dress/skirt, but it would be more appropriate if you had a skirt. Absolutly no jeans! If you ask me, a dress is a little "too dressy". Oh, and do not wear sunglasses, its also disrespectful. Good Luck!

Answer 4

Wear black, and no other color (at least if it's a funeral in any Western country). Anything else is disrespectful and tacky.

Wear a dress. You might see other women in pants, but never mind them. A black dress is always the right answer at a funeral. At the very least, wear a black blouse and skirt.

If there's going to be a graveside service, then dark sunglasses are acceptable. Carry a black purse to accessorize, if you have one. Keep the jewelry to a minimum (small stud earrings, a single strand of pearls, etc).

Answer 5

Black is safest. I once went to a funeral with a boyfriend and it was a different culture, I wore navy blue top and black skirt...everyone stared at me because I wasn't in all black.

A dress (not hoochy) or skirt and top, or dress pants. Nothing flashy, not a lot of bling...etc.

(You can bring dark sunglasses if you go to the burial)

Answer 6

Dark clothing is called for, black is even better. There was a time women would wear a black dress but I don't know if that is important any longer since I haven't been to a funeral in years.

Call the funeral home and ask them... they are very helpful to the friends and family of the deceased and will be happy to help you decide.

Answer 7

Your dress depends on where or when the funeral is. I would say dress nicely, put on your Sunday best. I usually wear a dress or skirt myself. If it is going to be a graveside service and it is windy out pants are the way to go. Just make sure whatever you wear that you are comfortable. You don't want to be too hot!

Answer 8

I do as i was raised by my mother years ago...regardless of what others choose to do. I always wear a dress or skirt. I always wear hose and appropriate shoes. I always wear dark colors. I do not wear anything flashy, the outfit, shoes and jewelry are very low key and sedate. I do not wear sunglasses. I do make sure I have tissues in my purse and a roll of lifesavers in case I feel like my throat is dry and I might start coughing.

Answer 9

Wear something conservative---a dress is OK so is a skirt or pants---as long as the colors are neutral (like black, gray, beige) nothing loud and colorful, keep it simple. If you are going to the cemetary or will be outside you can wear sunglasses.
Don't wear shorts or jeans or gym shoes----always remember the family will remember that you cared and will not remember or care what you wore.

Answer 10

I would wear black dress, skirt or pants. No cleavage, no sunglasses unless it is extremely hot and bright at the graveside. Just be respectabe. It's not somewhere to get a date it's a place to pay your respects.

Answer 11

A semi-dressy but MODEST outfit. As black in color as possible, or even dark navy blue or brown is acceptable if you have nothing in black that is appropriate. Also usually NO jewellry, and minimal makeup.

In general, sad colors are necessary and you don't want to call attention to yourself in any way. The focus should be on the funeral and respect for the people in mourning.