I met this couple on Saturday and they asked me to have a threesome with them. I feel kinda weird doing it, it has been my fantasy but I don't think I cna go through with it. They said they want to get to know me first and that they would wait for me. What should I do?
2006-08-21 09:06:20 · 25 answers · asked by joanna_m2001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you don't even know these ppl, if it was a girlfriend you knew then yes, but you don't know who this couple is...i say know, if you want to live out Ur fantasy, ask one of Ur girlfriends
good luck..
2006-08-21 09:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by truthfinder1960 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are feeling weird, then that feeling will magnify the closer you get to the bed/couch/wherever. There is no point going through with something that your instincts are screaming out "No!" because you'll never be relaxed enough to enjoy it.
Try talking about it with a clear goal of either being comfortable with the idea, or being out of the fantasy. You may even try being with only one of them first, instead of starting with both of them.
Make sure that this is a healthy exercise. Insist on exchanging every person's STI/STD status.
Ensure that it is something that all three of you enjoy, and prepare for when it is something that one of you do not enjoy any longer and wish to discontinue. People will change their minds.
Be honest with your feelings. Be clear about what you like and don't like. Similarly, be clear about what they like and don't like. Never fall for the "let's experiment and find out" mistake.
Once you have done all that, then enjoy your life regardless of whether you join them or not. Never look back and wonder "what if".
2006-08-29 10:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, basically they're swingers? That's cool. If this has been one of your fantasies, why not try it? It's not like a couple comes and asks you to have a threesome with them every single day! Just make sure that the three of you click when you meet with them since they want to get to know you first. It's not like they're a turn-off for you, or else you wouldn't even be pondering this and posting a question for help. Just make sure you're protected. No condoms, no sex. Duh.
2006-08-21 16:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't go you may get in to big trouble if you want to do a threesome do it with someone you know i did and it was great and when i mean some you know i mean a friend or some you know for a long time ok be careful.
2006-08-21 16:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. You're asking for a boat load of trouble if you do go through with it. You may fulfill a fantasy but are asking for a lot of trauma should you follow-through.
2006-08-21 16:15:09 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know these ppl first over a series of meetings, maybe even with someone that you have share your desire for this fantasy. Then if you still have those desires go for it because if you do not you will always b e thinking, "what if"
2006-08-21 16:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only live once. If it is your fantasy, you should go for it. Make sure you set bounderies that you feel comfortable with and have fun!
2006-08-21 16:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Todd P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a private thing, so should not try that. Because, if you get into this, you tend to loose all human shame and then it would be like a drug addict, you may be hooked. It might affect someway your future life. Leave this to porn movie artists.
2006-08-21 16:15:28 · answer #8 · answered by JIM 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it's a fantasy of yours too, go for it! But be sure you think you'll have fun w/ them too!
2006-08-21 16:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Yada Yada Yada 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am betting the guys will tell u yes and the girls no. question remains, what do u want. i bet it could be an experience to remember. but if u dont feel comfertable with it, it will be a bad memorie
2006-08-21 16:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by bencilius 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋