I knew her for almost 2 years now and we were in a LTR for over a year.. Everybody knows at work but now after I proposed to her and she refused because she doesn’t love me anymore and she moved on to another relationship.. I don’t know what to do?..
Should I leave (I am looking for another job already).. How should I handle this at work.
Please help me know what to do.
2006-08-21 08:48:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just for you fokes ho are trying to help..
I know that I have to move on but I don't want to loose my job but the looks that I'm getting are not that nice at all.. I'm playing cool and trying to make it look like I don't care.. Worst thing is that I think that her close friends know that she is seeing somebody else already..
Thank you all for your replies (except the FUNNY aids dude)
2006-08-21 17:13:26 · update #1
do you have any vacation time? if so take some and get away... Try to move on also.. Go out this weekend and see what is out there.. don't dwell on the things you can't change. Can you go to another department?
2006-08-21 08:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you make good money and or you love the job don't leave it because some chick didn't want something this good.I suggest you move on,I know it's easier said then done but that's really all you can do or act like you don't care.Don't let the other workers get any ideas of how your feelings.Be a man about it because although I'm not one I can some what imagine whats it's like to have somebody you love reject a proposal.She's just not ready for a real man.Just move on trust me when you find the right person you will be so happy that she said no.Don't leave your job because of her she's not worth that much when it come to supporting your self financially, getting another job can make a wrong turn.
2006-08-21 16:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it goes without saying you realize now that you should never mix business with pleasure. I have heard of very few couples who worked together fixed the problem after breaking up and remain working in the same office.
How to handle it is make like it's same old same old, nothing wrong, nothing different, you are back to work as usual. Can you do it? Or do you quit your job and I have no idea what kind of job we're talking here and how long you've invested. Why cut off your nose to spike your face. There is not one person who could hear this story that can't recall a time it happened to them.
Get on with your life, easier said then done huh? But the best advise I can give you.
2006-08-21 16:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by L C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I am SOOO sorry for what happened to you! If I were you though, I would transfer to another part of the company or get a job elsewhere. I would be embarrassed and really sad. I will pray for you!
2006-08-21 16:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why they recommend that you don't get involved with co-workers. You need to suck it up and be a man. Things didn't work out and that happens in relationships. Stop worrying about what others think and get on with living your life and making the best of it you can.
2006-08-21 15:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on, find another job.
2006-08-21 16:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude.. your life sucks man! i suggest getting all your savings and spend it on prostitutes until you die of AIDS
2006-08-21 15:56:19 · answer #7 · answered by CDM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on and forget about it
2006-08-21 15:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by g.a.p. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋