My littel brother (he's 6) plays with our neighbor's kids, they are 6 and 4. The older one can be a REAL BRAT! his little sister is a total sweetheart and is an angel,....she's not the problem, he is. This guy will talk back and say no if you ask him to do something. he totally dominates my littel brother and never listens, NEVER. he climbs on things he shouldn't and shows my brother dangerous things (like jumping off of sheds, climbing trees,etc.) I don't want to be too hard on this kid cause he can be nice and im not his parent but what can i do, his parents are really nice people and it seems that they can control him when he's around them. please help cause im afraid that i will blow out on this kid REALLY soon....
2006-08-21 08:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Lena 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Explain to your brother that the dangerous things his friend is showing him, are really STUPID to do. He's your little brother and he looks up to you, so use that for emotional blackmail. Tell him that you know how smart he is. Smart enough to know that doing those things that could hurt him, would really upset you. You don't want to see him hurt, but you're not there to watch him all the time. So you want to know that he'll make the right decisions for himself. If he says that his friend makes fun of him for not wanting to do those things, just tell him that it doesn't matter what those boy's opinions are, because he's dumb for wanting to do things that could hurt him. And you know that your little brother is a SMART boy and not a dumb boy.
2006-08-21 08:53:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 22:56:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the child that if he doesn't behave that he'll have to go home, then escort him there and tell his parents how he's acting around your brother. Explain that you aren't trying to get him into trouble, but if he doesn't mind when over at your house, you'll have to send him home.
And be aware that should the child get hurt on at your house, falling from a tree or off the shed, your parents are liable and can be sued for it.
So, for everyone's sake, make this kid go home when he starts pulling this stuff.
2006-08-21 08:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him which is right which is wrong, which is dangerous and which is not, on things they do.
tell your bro that if they guy says thing to do which is not safe tell him not to do it, explain the consequence. Show your bro it is not fun and safe or let him discover it with you around.
Like my wife would say to me let your son fight his own war, Because I'm like u, would like to tick the boy's ear if I saw him being naughty to my kid.
2006-08-26 18:03:37 · answer #4 · answered by Erase Program Read Only Memory 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure your brother is supervised when he plays with this child. You can ask your mom and dad to talk to his parent(s).
2006-08-26 12:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the kid alone, if he breaks his neck it isn't your fault. Just watch after your brother though--I don't think you want him hurt!
2006-08-21 08:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋