My man didn;t get home until 1:30 AM last night. He left at 7:00 to go "skateboarding" and we all know that skate parks arent open until 1:30 AM and it was raining so he wasnt skating an outdoor one... I trust him, I know he isnt cheating but I feel he could have at least called... I mean, if it was me who came home at that time, well he probably would have died worrying about me. We always know where eachother are, and well, I feel sometimes when he's with his friends he forgets about me, Am I right to be mad that he didnt even call to say he'd be that late? Would you tolerate it?
2006-08-21 08:30:05 · 32 answers · asked by nat_00420 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have skater friends who go out late and don't come home til morning and they always say they are "skateboarding" and in my experience of hanging round with them when they are s'posed to be skateboarding is that they do skate for a bit, then they'll sit down somewhere in the streets and get stoned or go to the shop and get alcohol and drink half the night. Skaters are genuinly trustworthy so i don't think you have anything to worry about,most guys like to go out with their friends and you shouldn't keep him from doing this but he should be a bit more considerate of you and let you know where he is b/c you will be worrying.
2006-08-21 09:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by EvieEvans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I definitely would not like that or tolerate it. Once you let them do whatever they want and don't deal with the issues, they will continue and it will get worse. He should have enough respect for you to at least call home and let you know that he is ok and where he is. To tell you the truth, I would rather be alone than to live a life where I have to constantly be worrying about a man who doesn't show me respect. If this is the first time this has happened, talk to him about it and let him know how you feel. He should respect your feelings if he truly loves you. Don't let it pass, at least let him know how you feel. Good luck.
2006-08-21 08:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by killerlegs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not right that he didnt call u should confront him about it and see what he says just ask y he didnt call do get mad or frustrated just ask and see his answer and see if he is telling the truth too another thing is if he dosent give u a straight answer try it on him and see how he likes it
2006-08-21 08:42:22 · answer #3 · answered by jackie06babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg! get over it and just talk to him about it and all you girls who are like "oh this guy sucks, you're better then that, blah blah blah", you don't know the guy, give him a break, maybe this girl is a freakin crazy person!!!
not saying you are it's just people are so stupid now a days
anyways, my advice, if you'll take it. just calmly ask him what he was doing and just explain that you were worried and stuff.
best of luck to you =)
2006-08-21 08:40:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think I would be mad, unless he said he would be at home at a certain time and didn't call. but if he just went out and didn't say when he would be back I wouldn't be mad. 'cause we don't give each other curfews
2006-08-21 08:39:03 · answer #5 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a right to be mad, just explain to him that its not a trust issue, its about being considerate of your feelings, he doesnt have to call an check in like your his mother, but if hes gonna be late, then he should call
2006-08-21 08:38:13 · answer #6 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, the bible says to put your trust in no man. I think it is disrespectful to come in at that without one word. Everyone has a cell phone.
2006-08-21 08:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by stthom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, how do you know he is not cheating? And I think you are overreacting a little bit. You are not his mom, but his girlfriend. He doesn't need to call you and let you know were he goes at all times.
2006-08-21 08:40:32 · answer #8 · answered by joesy617 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, how do you know he is not cheating? You have every right to be mad! Have you talked to him about it? If it continues, you should start thinking about moving on..
2006-08-21 08:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by sadeyes99_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be it depends on how many times he does this and beside i think hes playin u for a fool he has a reason to lie. there is a possibility he was with someone else
2006-08-21 08:39:21 · answer #10 · answered by sxyltchiqi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋