I date him for a month or so, he is a gentleman who open the car door for me everytime. We have great sex everytime we see each other 4-5 times a day. The problem start when he asked me if I want to go to this restuarant and watch this movie, I said OK..(it is the end of the world to me to eat there or see/not see that movie.).I saw the situation like a no- big deal..to me like whatever his decision is- fine by me. He got upset and mention that I playing game, say things just to please him.. no decision of my own. I, myself, thought he should be happy about it since I am not picky or self-absorb..Am I wrong? I have no problem of making big decision but these kinds I 'd like my man to do it. Now he said whatever I said in bed just to make him/his ego feel good too !!
Am I playing game in guys' eyes? I didn't even realize it..
2006-08-21 08:27:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes if a guy asks you to go to such and such restaurant then that's good. Sometimes if a guys asking and paying, and then asks you to decide, that's nice too! We don't like making all of the decisions. We sometimes would like to take you where you want to go. It get frustrating, when we have to make all of the decisions. Usually, that's because if you don't like it we have to hear about it for the next 5 days.
2006-08-21 08:35:45 · answer #1 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like games to me, but it sounds like a misunderstanding. Just tell him you thought his idea sounded good and if you would have had a problem with it, you would have said so. Let him you will stand up for yourself when need be, but you were fine with going where you did.
You pick the place next time, see if he says anything.
2006-08-21 15:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by Highroller 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sweetheart, it's the other way around. He is the one manipulating you into making you think you did something wrong and it worked. Stand up for yourself and tell him to stop playing mind games with you. Tell him he had better treat you with a lot more respect and expect to get what he gives. Don't let him make you into an apologizing idiot for doing nothing wrong.
2006-08-21 15:37:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I don't understand this part ... The problem start when he asked me if I want to go to this restaurant and watch this movie, I said OK..(it is the end of the world to me to eat there or see/not see that movie.).
It's sounds like you really didn't want to do this but you did anyway ...and he wants you to stand up for what you want .. is that true? Than do it. Don't do anything you do want.
2006-08-21 16:06:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont understand, all u said was ok when he asked if u wanna eat and see a movie, so whats the big deal?
2006-08-21 15:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by undertakerk789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not, sit down and talk to him, it that doesn't work, tell him he is acting like a big baby and he needs to get over himself.
If that pisses him off, oh well, find someone who is more mature.
2006-08-21 15:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the one playing games
2006-08-21 15:34:56 · answer #7 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was wrong, move on to someone who truly cares.
2006-08-22 11:58:50 · answer #8 · answered by herbs411_42719 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds insecure, try giving him more input instead of agreeing with everything he likes to do.
2006-08-21 15:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by The Key Master 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋