there's this guy i met a few months ago. i gave him my number, and he's been calling me all the time ever since. Then yesterday I finally laid the truth on him. I told him I wasn't ready to be involved-(which is my polite way of saying I don't like you leave me alone!) and he was like "Why didn't you tell me from the beginning," etc. and I told him that it was hard to, and then he damn near blew up at me and said he was going somewhere to get drunk. I feel really bad. Was I wrong? I know I should've told him how I felt in the first place, but it isn't easy doing so, and I thought he'd take the hint, since I never called him, and didn't even wanna kiss him!
what should i do?
2006-08-21 08:20:19 · 14 answers · asked by beachgirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well look at it from his point of view. He feels that you were leading him on, which you were. It a big blow to someone ego to find out that all your efforts were for nothing. To make matters worse you are still not being honest with him about why you don't want to date him, which I can only assume he has figured out by now. I think you should apologize to him and then leave him alone. He deserves better.
2006-08-21 08:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's nevertheless on a rebound. She sounds like she is attracted to you, yet she's not waiting to be 100% committed to you. supply her some area and time. once you should understand if it really is a "good" or "undesirable" e-mail, i'd lean in the direction of the best facet. Why? because a minimum of she likes you and respects you sufficient to be honest about her thoughts and she is providing you with a time body of purely one week. yet be very careful including her and do not dive into this courting head first because she could nevertheless be on a rebound. do purely not favor to ensure yet another damaged heart.
2016-11-30 22:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yeah, being honest is always better than leading a guy on for several months. You'd think he would've gotten the hint, but when he didn't why didn't you tell him outright? And why did you give him your number in the first place?
2006-08-21 08:47:25 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did u give out ur number then? U should have told the truth. Trust me, I had the same problem. I don't know, just feeling bad.
2006-08-21 08:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him if he will talk to you. That hurt because he feels like you didn't think about his feelings. If the boy calls you all the time then he likes you a lot. Usually after I start dating someone the phone calls become shorter.
2006-08-21 08:29:18 · answer #5 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, once he's ballz-deep in some other gal, he'll forget you ever even existed. Don't flatter yourself sweetie, it's no big deal!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-08-21 08:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how dare u!!!he loved u and u gave him false hope.see when a girl gives a guy her # that tells us that u want to go out with him.and plus don't girls want guys to call her because if he don't you would yell at him
2006-08-21 08:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by jon u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this experience. Be up front and honest in the future.
2006-08-21 08:29:48 · answer #8 · answered by Avid 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is a psycho. Good riddance.
2006-08-21 08:32:21 · answer #9 · answered by Toga748 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first of all you don't just go and give your number to any random person especally if you are not interested and then you lead them in and make them believe that you are
2006-08-21 08:30:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋