Facts: This guy is a world renown blues musician. I did not do anything physical with him. He did invite me to his home. Next show he does will be 2 hours away next Monday. He and his whole band were really cool with me, but it was obvious that me and him were hitting it off really well.
Questions: How long should I wait for him to call? Also, should I go to his next show and confront him if he does not call---not in an angry way, but in a "hi what is up? You can tell me the truth and I will still spend money on your live shows" kind of way.
2006-08-21 08:18:13 · 6 answers · asked by jandracu 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am going to close this question now because all is well. We have kept in communication by email. We also talked for a long time at his concert the other day. To answer my own question, assertive girls who make the first move will always wonder when they are out of control (they do not have the number to call when they want). Assertive girls who live life without regrets feel the pain of "out-of-controlness" more acutely! That was me!!! Thanks so much for your comments and suggestions. I am greatful!
2006-08-29 04:38:49 · update #1
You need to have better self esteem and not worry about him calling. You gave him your # and he didn't give you his. He is in a band. He gets propositioned all the time. If you show up at his show and confront him it'll make you look desperate. You might get laid but that'll be about it. Just go on with your life. If he calls then cool- if not then know he's missing out.
2006-08-28 22:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by STEPHEEDEE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look this guy is a musician. He probably gets a ton of telephone numbers from ladies. If I were you I would not sit by the telephone waiting on this guy to call. The last thing you want to be is a "one" night stand. Trust me with all the traveling these musicians do that is what would happen. You do not need to confront him, maybe if you do decide to attend a show "observe" and you will see he is hitting on a lot of women. Please do not get your hopes up over a traveling musician, if you do you will get a broken heart, and hurt feelings. Move on to someone who really has more substance to themselve. You will not regret it one bit.
2006-08-21 08:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show up at his concert and act like nothing is the matter. If you confront him even in a cool way, he's going to get aggravated. I wouldn't follow is band around to much, if he's not calling you because then you would be a groupie. If you see him say hey, but don't put too much into it. It's not like you guys are dating or anything.
2006-08-21 08:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to calling it goes like this. If he calls as soon as you both exchange numbers then that means he is desperate. if he calls you a week later then that is normal and any later than that it means he is not interested or has someone else on the side.
2006-08-21 08:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Zero, you should be living you life like he's living his and if he calls great, and if he doesn't no sweat off you brow.
2006-08-21 08:26:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no more than one
2006-08-21 08:27:02 · answer #6 · answered by traveller 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋