n give it to a loving couple who cant have kids of there own b/c of medical problems
2006-08-21 08:16:47 · 28 answers · asked by newyorkjets1967 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Neither, I'd keep the baby. If I didn't keep the baby I would put the baby up for adoption.
2006-08-21 08:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by sarahbeth 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ok. Here's my opinion. I dont believe people unintentionally get pregnant. Just because you didnt plan it, doesnt make it unintentional. If you dont want a child, you shouldn't be doing anything that may cause that to happen. You're only sure way to not get pregnant is to not have sex or to get a hysterectomy. SO...that baby is a gift to you. For whatever reason. It didnt ask to be born, or created. It is still a life. If you absolutely cant take care of it yourself then you should give it to a family that can love and cherish it the way it should. A baby is a blessing. And you'd be surprised at how fast they develop inside the womb. After 18 days the unborn child has a heartbeat. Its not my place to tell anyone what to do. But let me tell you. I have 3 children. And believe me I wasnt ready for them. Considering I had them all in 3 years. My boys are only 10 months apart. And my son and daughter are 13 months apart. It wasnt easy. And my situation was a little different. My ex husband didnt understand the word no. But I had all 3 of them. And even though it was hard and I had to struggle, I wouldnt change it for the world.
2006-08-21 08:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by ~Gigglz~ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Murdering an innocent baby is never justified. See:
Photos of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
2006-08-22 02:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went to the same experience twice, first one was unintentionally. i had an abortion. It was my own decision. I never think about that. 2nd time we wanted 2 have a baby and the a$$h le change his mind. I had an abortion because of that a$$h le. now after 13 years we both regret it so much. and it really affects my life so much.
Think about it really good. I rather have an abortion because i think it will b more painful to give your baby to someone else. it will stay in your mind forever and it will affect you for the rest of your life.
An abortion is the best thing you can do.
I wish you the best
AN ABORTION IS NOT KILLING A HUMAN BEING.
2006-08-21 08:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by Happy Girl 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Out of those two answers? I would put it up for adoption - I am against abortions.
I would rather keep it though, but if I knew I couldn't afford it or it would have a better life with someone else that could better keep it then I would do what I have to do to give my baby the best opportunity for them to survive.
2006-08-21 08:30:06 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Butterfly Kisses♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would never put my body through that and bring a human into this world unless it was 100% planned. Too many f'd up kids because of single mom's who got prego and thought they could raise the child on their own or that the daddy would stick around if they had his baby. Why do you think there are so many problems these days...
2006-08-21 08:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by spaniel_mommy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would put the baby up for adoption. We are talking about a living being. Some one will give that baby the love he or she needs.
2006-08-21 08:24:24 · answer #7 · answered by Tee 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would rather give it up for adoption than live with the guilt of knowing I destroyed a life but right now, If I get pregnant I am emotionally and financially able to take care of and raise my child so I'd be overjoyed. I guess it depends on the stage of life that you are at.
2006-08-21 08:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
i would never ever ever kill a baby... God doesn't do things just 4 the heck of it. there's always reasons for things. But if you are not financially stable enough to have the baby then give he/her up for adoption... i'm sure that there is a loving family out there that will take care of the baby!
2006-08-21 08:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Whit E 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I would not have a abortion or give up my baby for adoption. No matter how hard it would be to take care of my baby.
2006-08-21 08:27:14 · answer #10 · answered by dancer 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋