I told him a couple times that I needed to adjust positions, my legs were getting pretty sore and he was not listening to me since he was in the moment.
I ended up pushing the poor guy off of me and told him my leg was hurting pretty bad.
he got upset and said that i just wasnt into it, but that is NOT true. i just wanted to switch and he was not listening to me
am i a b itch for pushing him off me?
2006-08-21 08:16:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, if i was uncomfortable i'd push my gf off.
2006-08-21 08:23:48 · answer #1 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. You need to have a talk with him and let him know that, even if he's "in the moment" that he still needs to respect your wishes and do everything possible to make sure you are BOTH enjoying it.
If he isn't interested in listening to what you have to say, then he probably doesn't care about how you feel during sex. If you are with someone who does not care about how intimacy is affecting you, you should probably either find a way to fix the problem, or tell him that you just can't be with him.
Either way, you weren't in the wrong for pushing him off. Ask him what he would have done if you had his dick in an uncomfortable position and you wouldn't shift your weight or positions. He would push you off too most likely. What guys don't realize is that their dick isn't the only thing that can get injured during sex.
Have a talk with him. I'm sure it will all work out once he sees where you are coming from.
2006-08-21 15:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by loislanepoet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a B itch? NO! Point blank the guy was only concerned with one thing and one thing only and that was getting his own pleasure. I would say to make sure you let him know that if he want's to have any more sex.. then he needs to be just as attentive to you in the sack or he'll get knocked down again! you need to be heard too and the only reason he was truely upset with you is that he was right at the peak of orgasim and did not care what you wanted or how your leg felt and that was selfish. Speak up for your self and don't feel too sorry about the poor guy who had to be knocked down in order to hear he was hurting you!!! good luck to you!
2006-08-21 15:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was in the moment then it was probably seconds from being over. no, i don't think you are a *****. you have to understand his ego is hurt. men are pretty sensitive when it comes to things like this. with you pushing him off and telling him your leg was hurting could only mean you were not into the sex at that moment.
if i were you just talk to him about it and work at the communications with each other during sex preventing your leg, back, etc. from cramping up. tell him you were into it and you were enjoying the action very much until your leg cramped up. tell him you are sorry you pushed him off but your leg was hurting really bad.
then tell him lets take a tumble again!
2006-08-21 15:29:07 · answer #4 · answered by lou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he should've been more compassionate towards how you felt as well not just his pleasure at the moment. You were very caring by asking more then once he should've been listening to you after all you could've said no. And he still wasn't listening.
2006-08-21 15:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by kelly m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was any type of a decent guy, he would have listened to you, been considerate, and respected your wishes. When men listen to the brains between their legs, the space between their ears fills up with dead air!
2006-08-21 15:25:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, He's a Self Centered Selfish Immature Kid for ignoring your wishes! Dump Him Now!
2006-08-21 15:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, sex can be exhausting if you stay in certain positions for a long time. It just really sucks to be with a selfish partner who is only concerned about satisfying him/herself. I don't think you're a b*tch.
2006-08-21 15:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by six.pack.abs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all! It wasnt your fault u were in pain..Hes a dick for not listening to u, and that sounds like a selfish lover...And probably selfish in general...His pleasure shouldnt be your pain...
2006-08-21 15:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by misstikal311 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I read your past questions, I'm starting to doubt your sincerity. Are you making all this stuff up? Because in your last question you said you didn't get any last night...
2006-08-21 15:24:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he should have heard you when you said "let me switch positions" just like her heard you when you said it was o.k. to have sex with him.
2006-08-21 15:23:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋