I was wondering how does it feel to have your first baby with your boyfriend/husband?Did you two feel excited and happy?Are you and your baby's daddy still together?What sex is your baby?This is to all the women who had their first child with the one they love and that are very happy.
2006-08-21 08:04:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
lets see where to start, i was dating my high school sweet heart since my freshman year in high school, been with him for 5 years at that time. i went to get a physical and blood work in order to work at a hospital, i found out that my estrogen level is high, took a pregnancy test and found out then that i was 6 months pregnant. But me and my childs father were already on the verge of breaking up, so we dealt with it. and of course being the nationality that i am, i was force to have a family get together wedding, nothing legal. we go into 7 months of my pregnancy and i found out he cheated on me, so i forgave him and etc. after i had my son my weight was 200lbs going from 110lbs. i found out he cheated on me again, so this time i had a conversation with his mate, she honestly told me she knew the whole tiime that he had someone and was expecting a child, and that he's not interested in me bc im fat now and that im no longer myself. it hurted bad, but i felt so useless. i was only 20 when i had my son, and at the time i was sad that i was pregnant, but im not going to have an abortion bc i live for my responsibiities and i will do all i can to support my child. I left my childs father when he was only 6 months old. my son is now going to be three in december, yet his father barely started seeing him 3 weeks ago bc it was court orders. I think the best thing that ever happened to me was my child, it made me realized alot about life and for me to value life more and think about everything before acting upon it. i am happy now more than i was ever in the past being in that situation! i would go into details about how i struggled, but im happy for what god has given me now..
2006-08-21 11:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by fable f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was scared to death after I had my son, who is 8 now. I was 23 and I thought "what the hell did I get into?" Now I am 32, have 4 kids, baby is 6 months old and have been with my husband 12 years, couldn't be happier. I wouldn't change a thing. My kids are my life as well as my hubby. We have boy, girl, girl then boy. It is the most wonderful, amazing feeling to become a parent and you never really understand how much your parents love you until you have a child of your own.
2006-08-21 10:11:45 · answer #2 · answered by UmmFaisal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were married in June 1994 and I found out I was pregnant in Sept. 1994. We had our first child one month before our first anniversary. Getting pregnant was a totally unexpected surprise, but having him was the most amazing experience we have ever had as a couple. We were young and broke! It probably should have been such a stressful time but our beautiful baby boy was the glue that kept us together. We now have 3 children...One boy and two girls and are expecting our 4th child in 3 weeks. My husband and I are still in love and feel the same excitement and joy with every child we have.
2006-08-21 08:30:02 · answer #3 · answered by dedee1127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been married almost a year and half. Our son will be 5 months old on the 25th of this month. We were just so blessed and happy when he was born. I stayed home the first 6 wks with him. After that I wanted my husband to bond with him and I went back to work and had him quit his job to stay home with him. If you could only see them. It is so wonderful to see a father and his child connect like they do! Sometimes I could sit back and just happily cry for them. We are very happy and love to see what new things we are in store for each day!
2006-08-21 08:18:45 · answer #4 · answered by Keith Perry 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your first baby gives you a feeling like no other. My husband and I were a mixture of scared and happy. Yes, we are still together after 8 years and two more kids. :) We had a boy.
2006-08-21 08:14:55 · answer #5 · answered by YHop 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had so many mixed emotions I was only 17 and had hard labor ending in a c-section after 36 hours of labor. I now have 3 kids with the oldest about to turn 13. It was all so worth it. I am no longer with my oldests dad , but I have been happily married for almost 13 years. My current husband raises my oldest as his own.
2006-08-21 08:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were overjoyed!!!! We thought we couldn't have children(he was 35 and I was 34 and neitehr of us ever had children).IWe feel very blessed to have the opportuinity to have a child,and to shape and mold them.We have a daughter(she is two now) and she is the perfect manifestation of our love.Yes,we are still together and she seems to be the glue that keeps us working on our relationship,as we are determined not to become one of the statistics of single parent families.God willing.Our lives have changed so much,and we wouldn't change a thing.Children are such miracles,and if we never experienced one before,we certainly are now.
2006-08-21 08:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by girlqueen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word descirbes how I felt after having my first baby EXHAUSTED!!! I was in labor over 32 hours. Besides exhausted, I was extremely happy and overjoyed I had a healthy baby boy. I have two boys now. Both I am very proud of. They have become fine young gentlemen.
2006-08-21 08:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excited and happy, but also TIRED! My husband and I are still together and have a beautiful 21m daughter.
2006-08-21 08:44:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first baby is very special and scary because you don't know so many things
after 4 babies - yes i am still married to the same guy
we had
girl - boy -girl -boy
2006-08-21 08:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋