Ive been living with my girlfriend for two years and I love her to death. But Im in college and there were many times and there will be a lot more that I wished I was single. I feel like Im not ready to settle down but I cant leave the girl. I love her to death but shes too possesive. Shes too jealous but she spoils me on everything else. Should I move on or stay? Any advice?
2006-08-21 08:01:34 · 19 answers · asked by swoosh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she spoils you?? if she spoils you financially then it sounds to e that thats one of the main reasons your with her. and if so then you should leave because money aint gonna keep bringin you happiness. if you love her so much then why would you wanna be single??? you just may be used to her and think you love her. when your used to someone its hard to leave because your so used to her presence. if you wanna be single then you shouldnt play with her emotions and make her believe you care. i would leave. atleast be respectful towards her by not playin with her heart
2006-08-21 08:11:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some soul searching and ask yourself do you want spend the rest of life with this woman. You mention about jealous. Some women are going to be jealous, you can help her control her jealous. Since, you mention that you love her to death and that she spoils you. I would stay in the relationship. But, if, you are having doubt. I want tell that I need some time to myself, and I am not going to see other people.
2006-08-21 15:12:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, if you love this girl to death as you say than you shouldn't have no desire to be single... she's no dummy, she knows theres alot of honeys loose in college and she has every reason to worry....don't lose a good girl over a fling....focus on your studies and do everything it takes to keep your distance relationship alive.....phone calls, emails, letters, week-end visits what ever.............either that or lose a girl you already care about and party hardy....and then sure enough in time you'll try to get back with her and it will be too late.
2006-08-21 15:14:52 · answer #3 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love her then settle down. but if you want to see if there is anything better then just take a break and if you cant find any one else then go back to her. explain to her what you are telling yahoo. she will understand
2006-08-21 15:09:07 · answer #4 · answered by misty_blue_hawaii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with her if you can't leave her and if you leave her how do you know if you goin find someone another girl thats goin do you right there are cheaters and everything else out there.
2006-08-21 15:13:48 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's way too much p*ssy at college to be tied down like that.
2006-08-21 15:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want to be single then u are not being honest with urself or this girl. people who are in love dont want to be single they want to be with the one they love. i talk from experience
2006-08-21 15:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by Erin H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the end, you have to do what your heart says. I say leave, but I don't know all of the particulars.
2006-08-21 15:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Toga748 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell her how you feel and then both of you can make the right decision
2006-08-21 15:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by shaki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on - BUT if you move on she is an EX...and don't think you are then going to get her back.
2006-08-21 15:09:26 · answer #10 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋