there's this guy that i used to work with and have a crush on. a few months ago, he asked me for my number and i gave it to him. he told me he'd call me later on that night, but never did. The first time he actually did call me was about two weeks ago. I wasn't home and I saw his number on the caller id, so i called him back. he told me he wanted to hang out and that he'd call me when he got off work. He never did. Then about a week after that, I saw him at his job, and we had sex together. Then after we had sex, he told me he'd call me or for me to call him later on that night. He didn't call, and I tried to call him, but got no answer. A few days after that, I saw him again at his job. He asked me "why didn't I call him?" and i told him i did, so of course, he told me he'd get in touch with me later on that night and i didn't hear from him! i tried to call him, but got no answer. I even left a message, and he still hasn't returned my call! What is up with him?
2006-08-21 07:54:38 · 14 answers · asked by moneymakerchic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him alone girl
2006-08-21 08:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by purple_dogs_bed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, from now on i wouldn't invest anymore hope or anxiety in this guy, since he doesn't seem too serious about his plans that he makes with you. i don't why he'd insist on hanging out with you if he really wasn't planning on it, or it wasn't really important to him. bottom line, if he isn't call you, then i wouldn't call him. it doesn't sound like he really cares about you, because if he did, i'm sure he'd try to keep his plans with you. i don't why he's always asking you to hang out, but some people are just like that. they make plans with people when subconsiously they really don't plan on hanging out. Maybe it's just his way of being friendly. But from now on, I def. wouldn't take anything else or any other plans seriously, nor would i get my hopes up.
2006-08-21 15:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by beachgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but you've been had. Avoid this man and tell him to stop bothering you. From the first time he never called you should've known something was up. I think he's trying to see how weak or strong you are. Give him the walk-away. He's not worth it.
2006-08-21 15:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by Ahhh....Me Time 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he isn't playing with you.....you played yourself here honey. Come on what exactly was it that encouraged you to have sex with this guy? The fact that he didn't call, didn't spend time with you or was it not being able to believe a word he says that you found such a turn on? Sorry but this one is on you.
2006-08-21 15:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let him go. No contact whatsoever. He is not into you. Have you seen the book by that name? Its sooo true. A man who really wants to have a real relationship will do everything and anything to get it accomplished. Not being able to get you on the phone would not stop him. Don't hurt yourself anymore - let him go - out with the garbage.
2006-08-21 15:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by NavyBrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are way too desperate to even consider talking to this guy. Girl, don't you have any self-respect? You know, every woman is responsible for her love life. If you are so unhappy and confused about this guy, why keep trying to talk to him. He is obviously not into you since he treats you like this. Guys should be pursuing you. Good luck.
2006-08-21 15:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by italian_princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same thing.....and the best thing I think is to confront him, that's what I am about to do today....Just talk to him and tell him that if he wanted to play around with you, he should have talk to you straight, that way you would have known if you wanted to sleep with him or not.....otherwise, he is not worth it, if he can have time for you, well then just don't have time for him.
2006-08-21 15:03:25 · answer #7 · answered by Honey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. he is just a guy that has no priorities or responsabilites. don't call him. and if he does call you just call him off. tell him that you are annoyed that he doesn't respond to your calls when he says that he would. and that he is never answering your calls when you call.
2006-08-21 15:03:51 · answer #8 · answered by misty_blue_hawaii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds likie a player that only wants some bed action
2006-08-21 15:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by * Flave' * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he's just playing you. Why did you have sex with him? Get away from this creep!
2006-08-21 15:02:05 · answer #10 · answered by Toga748 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋