My boyfriend said another woman was good looking for her age. Should I be upset? We've been dating for a year.
2006-08-21 07:51:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOO ! He's just making a comment - an observation. If you get all upset, he'll start keeping his thought to himself. Don't you want to stay open for communication. He didn't say he wished he could take her to bed, did he?
2006-08-21 08:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by NavyBrat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl stop the madness right now! Life is too short to sweat the small stuff and this is small. The woman probably was good looking for her age and he has eyes so he can see that. If that's as big as it gets for you and him, you're good. Now if he says, "Look at the a** on that woman and what a rack! I wouldn't mind getting a piece of that!" Then you've got reason to be upset. Pick your battles if you want to win the war!
2006-08-21 15:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not be upset. I mean if you were to see a guy that said he was 47 and you had thought he was like 37, You would be saying the same about him, right. (my opinion just bc I see lots of faces each day & have been in that situation) Trust is what you need with your bf. That is all
2006-08-21 14:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get upset cause he said another woman is looking good? No! Looking doesn't count. He can look - but don't touch!
2006-08-21 14:58:38 · answer #4 · answered by verdes0j0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's not blind you know. If you are insecure than you should leave the relationship. You notice other men and don't lie. As long as he is not disrespecting you, you should not be upset about him admiring some other woman for her age. You got girl, he's yours.
2006-08-21 15:00:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me let you in a little secret... ...men are animals...
Okay so not a bit secret. They're brains are geared for procreation and their eyes are controlled by the little head. They look they drool but it does not mean he isn't in love with you or that he wants to be with the other girl. He just can't help it. His comment means no more than if you said "Brad Pitt is hot!".
2006-08-21 15:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by Alpha Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this is what i mean by women taking things the wrong way..AGAIN! Poor guy I feel sorry for him already u probably nag him about everything don't you? I wish I had ESP to tell him to just enjoy the sex till the nagging kills ur love life
2006-08-21 15:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Wiseguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. the rules are "Love, Honor, and Obey" it doesnt say anything about going blind. you're going to find other men attractive, or at least be appreciative that they're good looking. until he actually does something, dont worry about it.
2006-08-21 14:59:04 · answer #8 · answered by begeeman13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you be up-set ? Men have all along been admiring other women ( of all ages) , though for different/ personal reasons !!
2006-08-21 15:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by Just_for_fun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, but it sounds like you might want to grow up. If your jelous because he said someone else was attractive, he's in a relationship, he'll be trying to get out of soon.
2006-08-21 14:59:31 · answer #10 · answered by Go Cats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋