There are times that i get mad at him and complain about things and he says it turns him off when i do that but me saying anything to him sounds like im complaining.Aslo i tell him that when he looks at that stuff if makes me feel very insecure he tells me i have nothing to worry about. i love him and trust him i just want him to want to look at me as much as he enjoys looking at that stuff. he tells me he just looks at it cuz it is something different. i dont know whether i should worry. i know the feeling of wanting something different but im afraid that if he looks at it too much that he might actually want to do that stuff in real life.
2006-08-21 07:46:32 · 6 answers · asked by cutie patuty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get some lesbian porn ... see if he likes it just as much. If not ... he might have a thing for *****.
2006-08-21 08:07:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1 guys are much more visually oriented when it comes to arousal, so that would probably explain the fact that he's more turned on by the porn
2 its not unreasonable to feel insecure when he says he likes to look at something different every once in a while, but just understand that its one of those things that hes probably done for a long time and its just sort of a habit also be glad that hes just looking at porn. the fact that he's not hiding it from you is good, he's probably not likely to cheat on you if you are open in your relationship
just understand that its something he enjoys, maybe play along with it and try to not worry about it too much
2006-08-21 08:04:00 · answer #2 · answered by John L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are the type of girl who likes it with the lights off the same way every time what your bf want is you to open up instead of going to bed turning the lights off and doing the starfish he wants the lights left on well he just hangs out and you do yourself sorry to tell you but you sound like you are a very boring lay
2006-08-21 07:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got to suck it up girl, it sounds like your boyfriend has a healthy sexual appetite, just pick one of the milder porns, and offer to watch it with him, and then re-enact what they are doing
2006-08-21 07:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he does not love or respect you. If he loved you, we would not need nor want to see anyone but you.
2006-08-21 07:58:31 · answer #5 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you naive little girl...................you have so much to learn about men!!!!
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-08-21 07:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋