Because just like you're making the assumption that they are CRACK babies many other people are doing the same thing. A lot of people don't want to deal with children with problems or learning disabilities. So they adopt children overseas because they feel their only problem is hunger. But it has always made me angry when people adopt all those babies in other countries when they could adopt a child here and help not only the life of that child but also the lives of all Americans paying for the government agency to tend to the care of these lost children.
2006-08-21 07:59:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Mostly because drug addicted babies have many issues with disabilities and things. Sometimes it is easier to adopt overseas because here in the USA there is a long waiting period in which the birth mom can TAKE HER CHILD BACK. Overseas there is not that long weight to have birth moms rights taken away people are afraid of putting $ and time into a baby just to have mommy take it back 5 months LATER. Also there are drug addicted WHITE babies who are not adopted. Personally if i were going to adopt I'd want to be fairy sure there were no disabilities that were going to cost 10,000 dollars to deal with and be a chronic burden on the family.
2006-08-21 08:46:52
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answered by ally'smom 5
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Same reason when an accident happens in front of bystanders-no one wants to get involved. I am not for overseas adoptions either. These babies just need love and a chance with a loving family. I agree with you. They should be considered first.
2006-08-22 19:22:01
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answered by Stefbear 5
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people don't always adopt from the USA b/c of the fact that the birth mother could always come and say "i want my baby back" and then where would the adoptive family be? back in court, b/c the birth mom wants her baby she gave up for adoption back.
we adopted from overseas b/c of the above reason and the fact that it seemed like everyone we talked to either had adopted from haiti or knew someone who had adopted from haiti. not the same way w/ USA, or China, or Guatamala, etc.
2006-08-21 14:26:03
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answered by perfect2practice 1
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Have to go with the winning team, and sadistically more white people adopt then black people… it’s the whole birds of a feather flock together
And if you adopt an Asian, at least you know there good at math…
2006-08-21 10:16:26
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answered by Anonymous
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will the real answer is It is much harder to adopt outside your race in this country. We tried to adopt a child with darker skin then us and they told us we should stick with or own....... Yes I was pissed... and the more I got these answers I finally just gave up. This land may be free in alot of senses but In most it is not....
2006-08-21 13:45:18
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answered by Damian G 1
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i'm sorry which you had this manner of terrible time as a newborn. I worked doing registrations for years in worry-loose,center and severe college and that i observed how the foster care toddlers have been taken care of. the fairly some pupils we enrolled did no longer stay interior the college long adequate for us to get their archives. while we've been given a foster care pupil in our college, I continually made particular that they faxed me the archives on the instant because of the fact they have been many times long previous earlier the week develop into out. It made me ill. many times, the reason they have been transferred so at as quickly as develop into because of the fact they could try to touch their organic mothers and fathers. It irritates me how human beings be happy to talk to the thinking at the back of the voices of the anti-adoption human beings, as though they ( and that they on my own) have the rather, relatively as quickly as and for all interior scoop on our innovations. that's as undesirable right here because of the fact the NCFA speaking on behalf of those 'damaging birthmothers' who quiver of their boots lest their secret gets out! What rubbish! The BSE mothers, a minimum of, are of their 50's and 60's by now, and none human beings fell off the turnip truck the former day. we've seen plenty in that element, and don't walk around with rose-colored glasses. i've got self assurance that maximum all human beings comprehend that many times toddlers could desire to be removed from their families, there won't be different family which could take them in and there are certainly real, real orphans in this u . s . a .. even with the shown fact that, the foster care device is broken. It develop into designed to be a place the place mothers and fathers who have been up against it had a place to temporarily keep their toddlers by using ailment, dying or in any different case till they could get on their ft returned. It develop into no longer meant to be a chute to the waiting hands of the prepared PAPs or a tribulation adoption! extra, while a newborn is observed, there is no could desire to alter their call, seal their start certificates, lock their archives removed from them and their organic family, including siblings, continually. that's absurd.
2016-12-11 12:43:32
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answered by ? 4
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HAVE U SEEN THE MOVIE SAVING ISAHA????? Go rent it and then ask this question again! I would adopt one in a heart beat and then my family end up with broken hearts and the adopted child when thier so called crack mommy wants them back for awhile to abuse them more!!!!! THATS WHY! Seriously- rent the movie- it makes me cry each and everytime!
2006-08-21 12:16:59
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answered by Anonymous
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I had a teacher who adopted a balck little boy whose mother was a crack head and happened to have passed it on to her son. He was extremly hyper. She cared for him and now she has molded him into a wonderful kid.
This isnt common but there are some people out there who still try.
2006-08-21 08:02:46
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answered by rainymar143 2
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personally i wouldnt have a problem adopting a black baby from the usa if it came down to it....
2006-08-21 07:51:50
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answered by inluvndluvinit 1
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